tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34095208306060756212024-03-12T18:41:15.488-07:00I AM NOT DRUNKAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-65956290484601221122015-10-26T12:14:00.001-07:002015-10-26T12:14:53.649-07:00OLD FRIENDS<div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8037" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8038" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">On Saturday my good friend Geraldine came to visit me.</font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8039"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8040" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhilQSwNIFhloG49sHGvJ2DZE03VyDE_IeVKuRw3e3FJ9fFTQiP-sOypdZmrLZwC0XwKmOw_znGTxPhI43ft3Mt-XkuDIeuZD3npyNJC5L75gHyDg-syQ7Z4ZFfPI8JFxiqsGcYOn-ntK_1/s640/blogger-image-1986741447.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhilQSwNIFhloG49sHGvJ2DZE03VyDE_IeVKuRw3e3FJ9fFTQiP-sOypdZmrLZwC0XwKmOw_znGTxPhI43ft3Mt-XkuDIeuZD3npyNJC5L75gHyDg-syQ7Z4ZFfPI8JFxiqsGcYOn-ntK_1/s640/blogger-image-1986741447.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8042"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8043" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8044" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">G. and I go back. Way back. We knew each other as kids. We met at the riding stables and we bonded over Horses and Ponies, brushing the yard, mucking out. And that kind of friendship is the best kind of friendship, the kind of friendship that lasts a lifetime.</font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8045"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8046" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1mVYzl6MlztvYf17BOijQi2Rz2pvobHbhnIp2V55fOT6C6n45cMrDoBXUbkr2_ZoOwa8lS2V-cuMpbOgCfMX2QVV2JUQHh3iTnYCjqAb4k08blQces3HOjrZQTlqYpO9K2T9dSvDsB78M/s640/blogger-image-833241225.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1mVYzl6MlztvYf17BOijQi2Rz2pvobHbhnIp2V55fOT6C6n45cMrDoBXUbkr2_ZoOwa8lS2V-cuMpbOgCfMX2QVV2JUQHh3iTnYCjqAb4k08blQces3HOjrZQTlqYpO9K2T9dSvDsB78M/s640/blogger-image-833241225.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8048"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8049" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8050"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8051" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">These days G. is a Vet. She had always wanted to be a Vet. She is also a Mum to two exceptional boys. To Jamie, the Piano-playing, Guitar-playing, Mathematician, Scientist, Teenager and Genius; and to Johnny the Gorgeous, Funny, Rugby-playing, Drum-playing, all-knowing eight year old trouble-maker (I blame the parents!).<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8052"> G. is also married to the Gorgeous, Engineering, Entertaining, old enough to know better, Giz.</span></font></font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8053"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8054" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwinwrVh2Ozj92JLbSDVtH93wYAcLqSca8kxp_j_azmmkgsA6BivZmjJi0hB-LV9uzZq0uNhcIZwCzBKr3jNYptw83Gc8U0R6R_24_nzh7dpYB_lKL89mlEp9jovvhunpC67p9OV4Ziy6W/s640/blogger-image-2031255723.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwinwrVh2Ozj92JLbSDVtH93wYAcLqSca8kxp_j_azmmkgsA6BivZmjJi0hB-LV9uzZq0uNhcIZwCzBKr3jNYptw83Gc8U0R6R_24_nzh7dpYB_lKL89mlEp9jovvhunpC67p9OV4Ziy6W/s640/blogger-image-2031255723.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8056"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8057" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8058" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">G. finds time in her busy schedule (as well as being a Vet and Mum and Wife, and she is a Tri-Athlete and has raised money, raised c.£1,400<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8059"> </span>for Canine Partners competing in the Chatsworth House Olympic Distance Triathlon) to come and visit me with her Black Labrador Super Sonic. And so Sonic gets a new ball and we head off on a doggy walk, and as Sonic chases his ball, G. and I catch up on all the latest gossip.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8060"> </span>And then we come back and have lunch, or as a real treat we go out and have lunch.</font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8061"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8062" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdRFB0ILx2_aUh8S6Fc3EBqf6TnDgCda1cHqi14whmSVGXwGUEzQuAs5PJiShfxuwXykFhFB_hUaFYRjvLqpvRCQ8yA_zFSbbzuah5WqhybWmPRkwfjFlEudj_cCSVErXzvcmQPtiNr4PB/s640/blogger-image--985914870.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdRFB0ILx2_aUh8S6Fc3EBqf6TnDgCda1cHqi14whmSVGXwGUEzQuAs5PJiShfxuwXykFhFB_hUaFYRjvLqpvRCQ8yA_zFSbbzuah5WqhybWmPRkwfjFlEudj_cCSVErXzvcmQPtiNr4PB/s640/blogger-image--985914870.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8064"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8065" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8066" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">G. and Sonic used to compete in Dog Agility and we used to have great fun going to competitions, taking it in turns to make the picnic, meeting other dogs and owners.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8067"> </span>We used to refer to it as going 'Dogging' and would giggle as people were shocked thinking we were referring to the 'sex in public places' type of 'Dogging' rather than 'Dog Agility'.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8068"> </span>The picnics got more and more extravagant each trip out and at one memorable show with glorious weather everyone got invited back for Pimms (with all the fruit trimmings) and nibbles.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8069"> </span>I am Sonic's Official Photographer.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8070"> </span>Happy Happy Days.</font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8071"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8072" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8073" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> </font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8074"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8075" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8076" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8077"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8078">G. has collected me and taken me to Rugby Festivals that Johnny has competed in with Hinckley Rugby Football Club and Johnny is rather modest about the fact that I am his official photographer.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8079"> </span></font></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8080"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8081" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilEmszAIwDTbAO85wrBzgl6mp98ID6FmFWh9fWr9Xo9z6FOx-qFkxntqdLNq4-nIeyJzD9V_cxL7nSM52urVm_WbUBsUh3hZNcARwTvqkVF9FbbpRrxCp_SvNgS9HcBX-ypVEOLZ2CHK8S/s640/blogger-image--1291410758.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilEmszAIwDTbAO85wrBzgl6mp98ID6FmFWh9fWr9Xo9z6FOx-qFkxntqdLNq4-nIeyJzD9V_cxL7nSM52urVm_WbUBsUh3hZNcARwTvqkVF9FbbpRrxCp_SvNgS9HcBX-ypVEOLZ2CHK8S/s640/blogger-image--1291410758.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8083"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8084" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8085"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8086" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">There is something about Old Friends that is enduring and re-assuring. Old Friends know the best of you and know the worst of you.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8087"> </span>They've see you through thick and thin.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8088"> </span>Through good times and bad times<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8089">.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8090"> </span>They know your secrets, and you know theirs.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8091"> </span>You can't really upset them. You can't really shock them. They are just there, and that is exactly where you need them to be.</span></font></font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8092"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8093" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8094" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8095"> </font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8030"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8096"></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8097" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8098" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1445802136588_8099">G. understand how difficult I am finding it to come to terms with my MS and with the implications that this has placed upon me, recognises how upsetting and distressing I find it not being able to do the things that I was once able to do, but G. works with me to find ways that work so that we can still do some of the things that we have always done.</font></span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-79113002319991193782015-10-14T03:25:00.001-07:002015-10-14T03:41:03.106-07:00DOCTOR DOCTOR<div id="yiv2066980291yui_3_16_0_1_1444159290831_7569" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5240" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I was immediately made to feel welcome.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5037"> </span>It just immediately upon arrival, just all seemed re-assuring.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5038"> </span>Upon arrival on Ward24 I was delighted to feel well enough to want to take a shower, a shower that was lovely and clean and I was confident that I would leave feeler cleaner than when I entered. And there were seats provided to use in the shower, and the water was warm and wet and I was given a clean towel. Simple pleasures are so reassuring.</span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5046" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I really cannot praise highly enough the care, commitment and compassion of the nursing staff (Nurses and Health Care Assistants – I use the terms wrongly and interchangeably) on Ward24 of the LRI. And I have to give Cynthia MHLANGA a special mention for being particularly SPLENDID.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5047"> </span>But, in fact all of the Nurses and HCA really nailed all 6 of the 6 C’s of Nursing (Care, Compassion, Commitment, Communication, Competence and Courage).<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5048"> </span>I can add that they also added a healthy dose of Humour, which I suppose comes under Communication, but which <span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5049"> </span>was both most welcome and appreciated. They wholly encapsulated the UHL-tr vision of ‘Caring at its best’.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5050"> </span>Ward24 treated me with dignity and respect and have developed a positive and supportive culture of Care that recognises Cultural and Religious beliefs and differences, but everyone is afforded the same high level of care.</span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5078" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The staff of Ward24 appreciated that to a greater or lesser extent we were all frightened.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5079"> </span>We were in hospital, we were facing uncertainty and we were scared, we were frightened.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5080"> </span>Providing reassurance at this time really is the greatest kindness.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5081"> </span>The staff of Ward24 seemed to instinctively know what was needed or required, and didn’t mind taking the time to ensure that tasks were completed is a timely manner. Calmly and Professionally, with Kindness.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5082"> </span>Kindness is a quality that is so under-rated.<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1444143054574_5083"> </span>Kindness is a quality that was apparent in abundance on Ward24, and long may it continue.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-5930767382496992322015-09-22T15:18:00.001-07:002015-09-24T02:41:12.648-07:00INVISIBLE ILLNESS: My Invisible Fight<div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1442562398742_33404" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1442562398742_33405" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Imagine having an Invisible Illness. Imagine having an illness that is unable to be seen. That is ‘Out of Sight’, ‘Hidden’ and ‘Not Visible’. Imagine having an Invisible Pain. Imagine a pain that is SO real, and SO terrible, and SO all-consuming that you feel entirely wretched and miserable and distressed. BUT, that this is a pretty big BUT, a pretty gigantic BUT actually … BUT … nobody can see your illness, your pain. It is in fact, Invisible.</span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1441044845950_10149" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">On Sunday 30.08.15 I 'Braved the Shave' for Macmillan Cancer Support. I put up two fingers to Cancer for Macmillan Cancer Support.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-65243800469179542862015-05-16T05:37:00.001-07:002015-05-16T21:16:38.266-07:00UHL-tr3<div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20763" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Caring at its best or not? 'Caring at its best' is the Univetsity Hospitals of Leicester NHS Trust 'tag line'. It is one of the 'Values' and purpose.</span></div></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20763" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0V6U25mfQF0gjUbU5w4l_zl5xxkfCRx9EUhvbenf1OyS9AkwaGfACTix-F6e9NZuqvVBwfetv3Z3-dJZop9SdCkV5oA8I95izUSW7SNUTFb6dD9TMzGChfGLB8Ux5Huyb5z662w0lIQPb/s640/blogger-image--1575029799.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg0V6U25mfQF0gjUbU5w4l_zl5xxkfCRx9EUhvbenf1OyS9AkwaGfACTix-F6e9NZuqvVBwfetv3Z3-dJZop9SdCkV5oA8I95izUSW7SNUTFb6dD9TMzGChfGLB8Ux5Huyb5z662w0lIQPb/s640/blogger-image--1575029799.jpg"></a></div></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20763" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20762" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font>My experience of the LRI Day Ward, Floor 2, Balmoral Building, unfortunately really did not demonstrate 'CARING AT ITs BEST'.<br></font><font><br></font><font>When you are ill, when you are lying there in a hospital bed, when you are willing that the next person to walk onto the Ward has a gun to shoot you. You are arguably feeling pretty low. You begin to feel HELPLESS and HOPELESS! And then you start to feel worthless and a burden and the cycle of negativity begins and continues, and continues to grow.<br></font><font><br>This is when the amazing Nursing Staff that I have had the privilege to be cared by make a HUGE difference. A kind word and some reassurance from both the Staff Nurses and the Health Care Assistants, makes all the difference in the world. The Nursing care therefore that I had previously experienced on <b>Ward 25</b> (</font><a href="http://iamnotdrunkihavems.blogspot.co.uk/2014/11/uhl-tr.html">see previous BLOG</a><font>) and <b>Ward 14 (Bay4)</b> (</font><a href="http://iamnotdrunkihavems.blogspot.co.uk/2015/03/uhl-tr2.html">See previous BLOG</a><font>) had set my expectations of the standard of care at an ambitiously high level as the care had been of the absolute highest standard.<br></font><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGCTUuPCUYPX0tgPvuG3jN5VDSQPz8uw1o6W5kK_CDtrbHMaJ-nI3idwsbRmdspRTC6MY_Xj8RrTMh3DdapAUOykQEmInLtghVjZuIALx33FD887dS-ggCk6ueGyrsVQa13zThm9nesS7p/s640/blogger-image-252882743.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGCTUuPCUYPX0tgPvuG3jN5VDSQPz8uw1o6W5kK_CDtrbHMaJ-nI3idwsbRmdspRTC6MY_Xj8RrTMh3DdapAUOykQEmInLtghVjZuIALx33FD887dS-ggCk6ueGyrsVQa13zThm9nesS7p/s640/blogger-image-252882743.jpg"></a></div>However, on the <b>Day Ward</b></font><font> I was made to feel that I was not really a priority, that I was an inconvenience; that I was somehow not ill, but was 'attention seeking' or 'making it up'. The Staff Nurse on the Day Ward demonstrated a real lack of understanding of what it feels like to be a patient, of how a patient might feel. There was absolutely no empathy. No comprehension of how scared or lonely a patient may feel. That they couldn't find anything wrong, not because there wasn't anything wrong, but because they couldn't FIND anything wrong. In dealing with me the Staff Nurse made me feel like an unwelcome distraction from other things that needed doing. This made me feel even more wretched than I was already feeling.<br></font><font><br></font><font>The Staff Nurse really demonstrated what can only be described as rather an appalling attitude.<br></font><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhakEza6biWbKqIhwZvpdPpwvq0BQ8D1GLdZs_Et_cr8RUPImjI3i1aKjV3zs_2HVjMv6qw1CTBLhgWQdLhmbJgeoqYyY9p-pG18k9sWjdskTMHbpB1E_gj9JBsOZTzDPyPHB7l9WmmxSaB/s640/blogger-image--75826467.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhakEza6biWbKqIhwZvpdPpwvq0BQ8D1GLdZs_Et_cr8RUPImjI3i1aKjV3zs_2HVjMv6qw1CTBLhgWQdLhmbJgeoqYyY9p-pG18k9sWjdskTMHbpB1E_gj9JBsOZTzDPyPHB7l9WmmxSaB/s640/blogger-image--75826467.jpg"></a></div>The Nursing and Care Staff I had previously encountered had been of such a high professional standard that they really were a credit to the LRI, UHL-tr, and the NHS. Therefore when I experienced Nursing Care that was 'somewhat lacking' shall we say, in comparison the stark contrast felt more wholly apparent. The Staff that I had previous encountered demonstrated Nursing as a 'VOCATION' rather than as a 'JOB'. </font><font>They took a holistic approach to my care; both my physical and mental well-being was considered and they advocated and demonstrated Person-centred care.<br></font><font><br>However the care on the Day Ward was arguably a 'LACK OF CARING'. 'CARING AT ITs WORST'. Measure A of the 'Principles of Nursing Practice' states that, "Nurses and nursing staff treat everyone in their care with dignity and humanity - they understand their individual needs, show compassion and sensitivity, and provide care in a way that respects all people equally." </font><font>I do not believe that these principles were adhered to.<br></font><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGKUQ_7oXzgfzYU8t2p2rviPIlpsazLCR_4CXkbax_2kPvWLLp__ObbTdyMZuqsBrNDKBGAZiXoTh4gB9fvTWMhhiGG_CdP6Q_qwA1gl56JoNoRL_pdBYDn6F3LSAYYErqkqZ6fdmGOmVD/s640/blogger-image--1670753295.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGKUQ_7oXzgfzYU8t2p2rviPIlpsazLCR_4CXkbax_2kPvWLLp__ObbTdyMZuqsBrNDKBGAZiXoTh4gB9fvTWMhhiGG_CdP6Q_qwA1gl56JoNoRL_pdBYDn6F3LSAYYErqkqZ6fdmGOmVD/s640/blogger-image--1670753295.jpg"></a></div></font><font>I was a patient, in hospital, and I felt ill. I didn't know what was wrong with me, the Doctors didn't know what was wrong with me. I was alone and scared in a hospital bed in my JimJams and I felt utterly and wholly vulnerable, scared and alone. All I knew is that I felt more terrible, more wretched than I had ever done in my life.<br></font><font><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNxH9Jc6g1_CDp3-XmE-dwfBUOYzhkJlXxBf5pp_NG7qB9PeH7S9r82-Q0fsWiFi3L46UqLVExdb-VuN23up0rEqMKOSZqeprbFdVV0ZMOKfI1n4dd-Kwv4e_xqz7t8wzQMXvDSIbMeRtq/s640/blogger-image--1129544941.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNxH9Jc6g1_CDp3-XmE-dwfBUOYzhkJlXxBf5pp_NG7qB9PeH7S9r82-Q0fsWiFi3L46UqLVExdb-VuN23up0rEqMKOSZqeprbFdVV0ZMOKfI1n4dd-Kwv4e_xqz7t8wzQMXvDSIbMeRtq/s640/blogger-image--1129544941.jpg"></a></div></font><font>As I said earlier, as a patient laying in a hospital bed I felt HELPLESS and I felt HOPELESS. And that really is one of the worst feelings imaginable. The Staff Nurse on the Day Ward rather than helping to alleviate these fears with a smile, a kind word or the touch of a hand, she made me feel WORTHLESS which only added to the terrible spiral of negativity. The terrible spiral of negativity; fuelled by fear, a spiral that it is so easy for the patient to become embroiled in.<br></font><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20761"><br>The Staff Nurse in question may have been having a 'Bad Day' may had received bad news in her private life that was completely devastating. <font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20760">May herself have been feeling under the weather. She is only human. She may have been hung-over; I understand that, and it is unfair of me to judge. But, the way that I was made to feel was unacceptable, it really was wholly inappropriate; and tarnishes the perception of the whole LRI, UHL-tr and NHS, and I hate to think of other people experiencing the same LACK of Care at a time when arguably they need it the most.</font></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20763" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font><font><br></font></font></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20764"></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20759" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20758" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The attitude of this one person tarnishes the amazing work and the hard work of her colleges and fellow Nurses of the LRI, UHL-tr and NHS. <font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20757">And, I really don't believe that she embraced the 6 C's of Nursing:</font></font></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20756"></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20767" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>Care</b> - although she cared for me as part of her job, she didn't take care of me holistically, and certainly didn't go above or beyond in any means imaginable;<br><br><b>Compassion</b> - she showed little or no compassion towards me, or towards how I was feeling;<br><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20782"><br><b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20781"><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20780">Commitment</font></b></font><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20779"> - she wasn't committed to making me feel that I wasn't a burden, or making me feel that I wasn't a worthless, which was how I was feeling;<br></font><br><b>Communication</b><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20778"> - she failed to communicate with me in a way that put me at ease about my worries, and she failed to reassure;<br></font><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20766"><br><b>Competence</b><font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431750609487_20765"> - although technically efficient, she showed a lack of understanding about my health needs simply by not understanding what was wrong with me. 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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I know that it is March. It is March again. </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">It was March last year too, and the year before. And I know that March is MS Awareness Month. It is MS Awareness Month again. It was MS Awareness Month in March last year too, and the year before. But how to mark it? How to 'celebrate' it? How to Raise Awareness? That is what MS Awareness Month is all about, Raising Awareness.</span></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Having been prescribed some Amitriptyline to complement my Pregabalin I was told I could go home. And so I went. I packed my bag and called my Dad. I went through the Hospital, not really giving a hoot that I was wearing my WonderWoman Onesie and Hospital issue Slipper Socks and even though I was feeling much better than I did, I still looked really quite rough. I went with my bag and my stick to the entrance point where Papa collected me and took me home. Home to my cat and hot water bottle.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-17144098735405590572015-03-11T06:21:00.001-07:002015-03-11T06:21:07.347-07:00NARBOROUGH HALL<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font>If I have got to get a birthday present. Or any kind of present. Something pretty. Something unusual. Something thoughtful. The first place that I will think to visit is Narborough Hall. I love Narborough Hall. Everything about Narborough Hall. The choice of beautiful, individual, quality items means that you are literally spoilt for choice.<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCYUWjheFO-abd6OKk5kBZb0IAGMgaejskU4gRAfX8BTr4_g1h1wLnURoDO7reesBaVtSREGAyOb6oP1jltjzVsaB7y8udZ6esiyObtz9Duy8KYijU-PZ-XeINtfkjqneKdreuWFVwRdTZ/s640/blogger-image--1119436984.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCYUWjheFO-abd6OKk5kBZb0IAGMgaejskU4gRAfX8BTr4_g1h1wLnURoDO7reesBaVtSREGAyOb6oP1jltjzVsaB7y8udZ6esiyObtz9Duy8KYijU-PZ-XeINtfkjqneKdreuWFVwRdTZ/s640/blogger-image--1119436984.jpg"></a></div>I am a letter writer. I believe that 'hand-written love letters will never so out of style'. These days I send more cards than letters. At Narborough Hall the range of cards is tremendous. Covering every occasion. Birthdays. Weddings. Christenings. I send cards to cheer people up, to let them know that I am thinking of them. And just because. I am literary spoilt for choice.<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlfEBkqrhPBSvZbkGEyPTYNcEpoaLpJmiWj1S5Sqw02UidIsuemBQwyJtbLkXpeBZQxyQ9dSTEkZ7kZdi-g-E-RjuYwGr-EvSFLFaWWzBizSchbjcC7wvpzDU6qpLVjzJzcYZEpKNmbYnv/s640/blogger-image--1304260857.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlfEBkqrhPBSvZbkGEyPTYNcEpoaLpJmiWj1S5Sqw02UidIsuemBQwyJtbLkXpeBZQxyQ9dSTEkZ7kZdi-g-E-RjuYwGr-EvSFLFaWWzBizSchbjcC7wvpzDU6qpLVjzJzcYZEpKNmbYnv/s640/blogger-image--1304260857.jpg"></a></div>And then there is the FABULOUS range of Jewellery. A friend bought me 'A Little Strength' bracelet (from the Joma Jewellery range) in recognition of my daily battle with MS. I have also bought this bracelet as a gift for a friend experiencing health difficulties and also for a friend whose little girl was in the Intensive Care Unit at Great Ormond Street Hospital (GOSH), a worrying and frightening time for a parent who felt helpless to help her little girl. The bracelet was a reminder for her to 'Stay Strong'. And this to me sums up the range of thoughtful gifts available at Narbourgh Hall. Something simple and pretty and thoughtful.<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjabpgAUTBMosfWjaSJV0G8PgizB4d4oHqwpvD07Xigp_f4tL90si46h5StXqleuh906z5J7mrvgZdmOyfanxtjamH7sX1sBckMxnt8bsSuULXXZvSzWVuOiDQYOPqyT2jIK5eQ6ZlmBIgz/s640/blogger-image--1995912627.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjabpgAUTBMosfWjaSJV0G8PgizB4d4oHqwpvD07Xigp_f4tL90si46h5StXqleuh906z5J7mrvgZdmOyfanxtjamH7sX1sBckMxnt8bsSuULXXZvSzWVuOiDQYOPqyT2jIK5eQ6ZlmBIgz/s640/blogger-image--1995912627.jpg"></a></div>The staff at Narborough Hall know the choice of stock available, and they are charming and friendly. They go the extra mile to ensure that you have a lovely shopping experience. And when you buy an item it is all carefully wrapped with care and attention. And they smile. Such a small gesture, but a smile is one of the things that makes being at Narborough Hall so lovely. We talk about 'Retail Therapy' and that is exactly what they offer, 'Therapy'.</font></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5umoG8TRpE5Yx1-4tu31_IkAbdjLGSAILQ8sFMfOciuaJoERXHfzlZP-2mKWvJtdtOT6GTpE7_DCu3BCzlc28SeN9gokpfZAZqwU0rvUHVFrLGjh00odih6KvujZF4Aa8aAvBTAbMtyzH/s640/blogger-image--876769425.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5umoG8TRpE5Yx1-4tu31_IkAbdjLGSAILQ8sFMfOciuaJoERXHfzlZP-2mKWvJtdtOT6GTpE7_DCu3BCzlc28SeN9gokpfZAZqwU0rvUHVFrLGjh00odih6KvujZF4Aa8aAvBTAbMtyzH/s640/blogger-image--876769425.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So I was delighted to visit for the 'Spring Celebration' this weekend. As well as Perfect Gifts. Beautiful Jewellery and the absolute Friendliest Staff, there were Macaroons and Peach Fizz. How splendid. It is no wonder that Narborough Hall has been nominated in two categories in the Leicester Mercury Business Awards (the 'Sales & Marketing' category and the 'Retail Business Award' category).</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsUAHwXNFMAx4wtt4q0tAAAroy6poKUO11uTqhyphenhyphens4G4oiYNBCcGA4QrCPE9ZQkwo3RkpCq8s60my0IxzyfMy442cVw3tHLTrHlNmH6OixkfGCGn6q8wlA4Z14AwpvF7b01xHLut7zk0twv/s640/blogger-image-671089794.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsUAHwXNFMAx4wtt4q0tAAAroy6poKUO11uTqhyphenhyphens4G4oiYNBCcGA4QrCPE9ZQkwo3RkpCq8s60my0IxzyfMy442cVw3tHLTrHlNmH6OixkfGCGn6q8wlA4Z14AwpvF7b01xHLut7zk0twv/s640/blogger-image-671089794.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So if you are looking for the perfect gift, or no matter what the present-buying challenge or if you just want to see nice things in a lovely environment, and you are in Narborough. Do pop in to Narborough Hall. You won't be disappointed.</span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-15928463954453583702015-03-08T15:48:00.001-07:002015-03-08T15:48:04.927-07:00PONY PAIN MANAGEMENT (PPM)<div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I hurt. I really hurt. I could cry. I really could cry. Just sit and sob. But, I choose NOT to cry. I choose to put on my big girl pants, my thickest tights and my biggest boots (also several jumpers and two coats) and go to the stables.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX8ZYGgt7nd1ZqlnAUGyBWWdGl9icz3iaai5UpBeYXGU-LSzDuoFTIymgVXFx8UA-lipUDMvcd4KCuntwLAqX7B0HNaMHViqWl_VhRMY_k9p5HtJaDgyos5fH-YlpwNAipVVDeLyMkrfCf/s640/blogger-image-948918046.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX8ZYGgt7nd1ZqlnAUGyBWWdGl9icz3iaai5UpBeYXGU-LSzDuoFTIymgVXFx8UA-lipUDMvcd4KCuntwLAqX7B0HNaMHViqWl_VhRMY_k9p5HtJaDgyos5fH-YlpwNAipVVDeLyMkrfCf/s640/blogger-image-948918046.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">At the stables there is George, Benson, Jack and Robbie. And of course Max the resident Jack Russell and 'Ratter'. It is not clinically proven, but that doesn't make it any less true, that it really is the BEST Therapy a girl could hope for: Pony Pain Management (PPM).</span></div><div class="yiv0021778557yqt2745907554" id="yiv0021778557yqtfd86608"><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpFwHc8W1h8WSxPNHrfJfajVRejrNJYgw4yuiTX94fJ1DxF45abtnn_b5WXWW3FOZQXCMVmRNfTyzEys0rn-5lq40-gSn4SxwuVBWQreLLFipZoZ4p14DYADP-cI_GlVhZnJd2poZsjkHf/s640/blogger-image--962184897.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpFwHc8W1h8WSxPNHrfJfajVRejrNJYgw4yuiTX94fJ1DxF45abtnn_b5WXWW3FOZQXCMVmRNfTyzEys0rn-5lq40-gSn4SxwuVBWQreLLFipZoZ4p14DYADP-cI_GlVhZnJd2poZsjkHf/s640/blogger-image--962184897.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The fact that Rose, Jules, Tina and Emma are there for tea and biscuits and chat too, is just an extra bonus.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUVoqKcTasDotRTGBTryIfXYku128wcpCI6iCPar2zLti3J44ioYwWTKD_2svYsW1BDDbawOjyoeYRt-06tq0DSxGLH0dvDluqiSHHeaC_s-OWcJDEIKhXtxo5YADYG6Xu98VbdPgU2m6v/s640/blogger-image-1162871152.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUVoqKcTasDotRTGBTryIfXYku128wcpCI6iCPar2zLti3J44ioYwWTKD_2svYsW1BDDbawOjyoeYRt-06tq0DSxGLH0dvDluqiSHHeaC_s-OWcJDEIKhXtxo5YADYG6Xu98VbdPgU2m6v/s640/blogger-image-1162871152.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So, now I am dirty and smelly and in pain. But, somehow it seems worth it. That I am dirty and smelly and in pain, but I have spent time with the ponies, and somehow I am happy.</span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-66461867584503884642015-03-08T14:11:00.001-07:002015-03-08T15:35:46.629-07:00BOXING<div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">My amazing friend. My really truly a-fucking-mazing friend Ms Elise Bethancourt Barker has been doing something wonderful and slightly surprising. Elise has taken up Boxing. Taken up Boxing in an attempt to raise money and raise awareness of cancer research in aid of Macmillan's Cancer Support. She has spent the past few weeks training hard, really hard. No mean feat with a demanding job (A Director of Marketing and Communication somewhere in the NHS) a demanding husband (Iain) and demanding children (Harrison, Max and Sophie). So, it is fair to say that Elise already has her hands pretty much full to try and fit in training too.</span></div><div><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOQH6H4EVHjtppE0YBTAsZ6-DE1j8SPwGNB5ScUAKk0fpSqNHao-4YB6odrah1iGyvapcegRUSUneL2P-RbGNBK7VCpBbXAoMGzKZS3hi7atnPuo5SbiZrSC12KrjNFf6vXdx20ALqYppf/s640/blogger-image--2029964123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOQH6H4EVHjtppE0YBTAsZ6-DE1j8SPwGNB5ScUAKk0fpSqNHao-4YB6odrah1iGyvapcegRUSUneL2P-RbGNBK7VCpBbXAoMGzKZS3hi7atnPuo5SbiZrSC12KrjNFf6vXdx20ALqYppf/s640/blogger-image--2029964123.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">It isn't surprising that Elise is doing something wonderful. It isn't surprising that she is doing something wonderful for Charity. It is slightly surprising that that something wonderful is boxing. When I think of boxing I think of black eyes and broken noses, not something I would associate with Elise! Elise is Boxing with 'Pink Collar Boxing' (</span><a href="http://www.pinkcollarboxing.co.uk/" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">www.pinkcollarboxing.co.uk</a><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">). And has adopted the 'fighting name' of Elise 'Boom Boom' Barker.</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxL2tQ3QRoJ4wSF5uRw6aZ0nB-WiNB0-YGvVjLWV6j4EfJlntWrw-xuwjLuUn3V6KmWiltxG2THKquPiP2HYZrCsAeYJ6KHNXB-05A-XsAOu0Lt73puRZnBodvnitoDTEZlFRJap3X70Q-/s640/blogger-image--2132457115.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxL2tQ3QRoJ4wSF5uRw6aZ0nB-WiNB0-YGvVjLWV6j4EfJlntWrw-xuwjLuUn3V6KmWiltxG2THKquPiP2HYZrCsAeYJ6KHNXB-05A-XsAOu0Lt73puRZnBodvnitoDTEZlFRJap3X70Q-/s640/blogger-image--2132457115.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So, off we went to support her in her first 'bout' I think that they call them at the City Rooms in Leicester. I must admit I was little bit scared (mainly for the other person!) and I mean I'm a gentle person, I don't do violence ... BUT this is my friend and I don't want her to get hit and I don't want her to get hurt and I want her to WIN ... So, Take No Prisoners Barker ... Hit FAST Hit HARD ...</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijPMNLgba7gW059b_hUbfVXCn4ClWcxkUGJs_4MNo9CmZGtkYClkt-0iyfQmeRRNwCnV1xaqlGBFj-aa65d5AYc9whYCmuv3iocyxHbz3YRr1T5G14UlCDbedXbL4vUJmNjQrqD_qT17dx/s640/blogger-image--1721893286.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijPMNLgba7gW059b_hUbfVXCn4ClWcxkUGJs_4MNo9CmZGtkYClkt-0iyfQmeRRNwCnV1xaqlGBFj-aa65d5AYc9whYCmuv3iocyxHbz3YRr1T5G14UlCDbedXbL4vUJmNjQrqD_qT17dx/s640/blogger-image--1721893286.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">What a splendid way to celebrate #InternationalWomansDay?</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs7k1LYwBiUY2W-sldmIsOU1JUrbDqZNEqGBBVnqfX2LfFQLJWmVGlKQWOSYrbmYiatT7tnTnKUiZwwoC_Y2YzPUOlRfpnwN93hilxdbuqVRf4xdjylq-7bKWKBMhyZhGLXDpSNYfUyCFf/s640/blogger-image-1121235962.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs7k1LYwBiUY2W-sldmIsOU1JUrbDqZNEqGBBVnqfX2LfFQLJWmVGlKQWOSYrbmYiatT7tnTnKUiZwwoC_Y2YzPUOlRfpnwN93hilxdbuqVRf4xdjylq-7bKWKBMhyZhGLXDpSNYfUyCFf/s640/blogger-image-1121235962.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Sophie was feeling quietly confident, she explained her Mum's preparation involved a lot of thought and tactics. And Max added that his Mum was 'Prepared, Tactical and Determined'. </span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN6XY5tv2FVVQI7nc50xfV3DibOdZ9K1DUBmR8HnLLu8xOIX5jWm1O6zLMolO6ziiRQZQ-yKga1611uondlDnZlNwTfLy14G86Ms4cJ3YCm_1Cr7_x7QsJz5aIjgPVKXq32uyHrj9qNN05/s640/blogger-image-2087735265.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN6XY5tv2FVVQI7nc50xfV3DibOdZ9K1DUBmR8HnLLu8xOIX5jWm1O6zLMolO6ziiRQZQ-yKga1611uondlDnZlNwTfLy14G86Ms4cJ3YCm_1Cr7_x7QsJz5aIjgPVKXq32uyHrj9qNN05/s640/blogger-image-2087735265.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Iain had ensured that 'rent a crowd' were there: Mark & Jo, Richard and Jeanette, and Chris & Rachael. And they were in good voice. The Music certainly help to build up the anticipation and the atmosphere. 'Snap: You've got the Power'; 'Queen: We will rock you' and of course, 'PJ&Duncan: Let's get ready to rumble.'</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia8mRD5DSfRaRWt7hefnGqYzb790y7Ty0HBtJmA0hyphenhyphen6AvJVi2NkSrMR2Q33DD23ok9mjQQ_uQB6E7eqhBjGO3LZp5YOr38lg2Cf3OL1V82OB3F6KjeDkJBMeYvdMBrQKjmU3Ssgn6Z-8mN/s640/blogger-image--616652812.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia8mRD5DSfRaRWt7hefnGqYzb790y7Ty0HBtJmA0hyphenhyphen6AvJVi2NkSrMR2Q33DD23ok9mjQQ_uQB6E7eqhBjGO3LZp5YOr38lg2Cf3OL1V82OB3F6KjeDkJBMeYvdMBrQKjmU3Ssgn6Z-8mN/s640/blogger-image--616652812.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Elise seemed calm, although probably hiding the nerves and chaos of emotions, and displayed her legendary 'steely determination', a look she has been practicing for years and which seems to suggest 'Just Don't'; 'Don't Mess'; 'Or I may not be responsible for the consequences'.</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy92DuNSXnaU1vXmyVeb_9tt0M35wMBMNryqOsZD0YZB-eLSINQavFQsdokxgtHrV7HnUl8R66ecGmj9PxKifMtlk55NpSw2CpSeuEJxAffmfUUJXG6MydNp0s_8RiXRHbI3TjV2n_iTxI/s640/blogger-image-1864300748.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy92DuNSXnaU1vXmyVeb_9tt0M35wMBMNryqOsZD0YZB-eLSINQavFQsdokxgtHrV7HnUl8R66ecGmj9PxKifMtlk55NpSw2CpSeuEJxAffmfUUJXG6MydNp0s_8RiXRHbI3TjV2n_iTxI/s640/blogger-image-1864300748.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I </span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">know very little about boxing but found a few Muhammad Ali (he knew something about boxing) quotes to inspire her: "Float like a Butterfly, sting like a Bee. The hands can't hit, what the eyes can't see."</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaBkVivK_v3VMDkppkioON7WiZ0IUqyiqk19wRlKrnu7WTdOQWUHJkbh4qwO75KwQ1HkhIaudnbYP1PYgBszix6t1q1H-PWevtxw4roYGLePp3YHBWishCyxnO22K2WBS6-L8Qlkc6RYmo/s640/blogger-image--1229184518.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaBkVivK_v3VMDkppkioON7WiZ0IUqyiqk19wRlKrnu7WTdOQWUHJkbh4qwO75KwQ1HkhIaudnbYP1PYgBszix6t1q1H-PWevtxw4roYGLePp3YHBWishCyxnO22K2WBS6-L8Qlkc6RYmo/s640/blogger-image--1229184518.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Actually, considering I'd always considered myself somewhat of a pacifist, against the whole notion of violence, but actually I really rather enjoyed it. I think 'PJ&Duncan: Let's get ready to rumble.' over-excited me!</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYYv8zAWAwV_0ZyDdkHChxEntFSIp6ezKJDOz31QlPaKvx8pSi6L355R8S2f_223DKUdyUfgaTABHuvmJlbNke-Svp-f6StfGJON0iDL6niuQxGQPJdhNmF-KH7zD0_w6BsoY51Kjhyphenhyphen-_5/s640/blogger-image--1755294745.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYYv8zAWAwV_0ZyDdkHChxEntFSIp6ezKJDOz31QlPaKvx8pSi6L355R8S2f_223DKUdyUfgaTABHuvmJlbNke-Svp-f6StfGJON0iDL6niuQxGQPJdhNmF-KH7zD0_w6BsoY51Kjhyphenhyphen-_5/s640/blogger-image--1755294745.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Iain didn't have any considered, helpful last minute advice for Elise, but confidently commented: 'She knows what she's gotta do.' Yep, So, Take No Prisoners Barker ... Hit FAST Hit HARD ...</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk9I1mORotnjEMc5XCe8tnTFEI1HRWdi6i-ekcGRRYCjJ81BHZZtEzZ1tHnDuKhc3Je56DMesKrXc92l7uliIAtGtbwqcKPRv7xN7X_R-6uXEp8QrRpoUbRJUyrYtSAL5Ay4DJQvYIQDtL/s640/blogger-image-1592202795.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk9I1mORotnjEMc5XCe8tnTFEI1HRWdi6i-ekcGRRYCjJ81BHZZtEzZ1tHnDuKhc3Je56DMesKrXc92l7uliIAtGtbwqcKPRv7xN7X_R-6uXEp8QrRpoUbRJUyrYtSAL5Ay4DJQvYIQDtL/s640/blogger-image-1592202795.jpg"></a></div></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It was all quite exciting, and the competition was tough. But Elise WON ... Fantastic Effort. Well Done Elise. We are all very proud of you.</span></div></font></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-839778907346313922014-12-31T09:45:00.001-08:002014-12-31T09:45:43.687-08:00REVIEW OFTHE YEAR: 2014<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Well ... that is 2014 all but done and dusted ... a whole year of BLOGGING ... 52 BLOGs written and completed and posted ...</span></div></font></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It is fair to say that 2014 has not been as easy year; not at all, not by a long chalk ... it has been awful, really awful ... it has been a bitch ... but I am still here, perhaps not where I'd hoped to be or even where I'd like to be, but I'm here. So I might as well look at some highlights ... of which there are surprisingly quite a few ... 2014 might not have been great, but there have been some great moments involving great friends most, if not all, involve Friends, Coffee, Horses, Hounds, my Cat and Benedict CUMBERBATCH ... and of course Papa ...</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">In no particular order ... :</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">A lovely generous surprise gift, 'just because' a beautiful bracelet 'a little strength':</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqaltCAslpptqWjvic8_dNpYEBdYolkmpjwALVXZYleDGTyYFu5PRmLozxq9Yy9l1WW1QFLfbw_wZQ4gk5FjhiYuv_9c10CBrcz5bDfPgIkhqsBbTvpGn9EC3L7_cbuKRwGeB8MzxyJmOT/s640/blogger-image--902005714.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqaltCAslpptqWjvic8_dNpYEBdYolkmpjwALVXZYleDGTyYFu5PRmLozxq9Yy9l1WW1QFLfbw_wZQ4gk5FjhiYuv_9c10CBrcz5bDfPgIkhqsBbTvpGn9EC3L7_cbuKRwGeB8MzxyJmOT/s640/blogger-image--902005714.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">A Puppy for Brian ... he called him 'Blu':</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3c5C4Ef6kRXmxLu_8eRQ1dgy6LUJzBMshwq6hXBQ7AzvOo_QTKXSJfx2o5WpMOh08KWhBBLgMl_pG786x6UnGY-5RrOzSsxjgZEyQEpqmBGttXxpqP72LBviMthhSzgG3UMeIEB62K9jd/s640/blogger-image-753750131.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3c5C4Ef6kRXmxLu_8eRQ1dgy6LUJzBMshwq6hXBQ7AzvOo_QTKXSJfx2o5WpMOh08KWhBBLgMl_pG786x6UnGY-5RrOzSsxjgZEyQEpqmBGttXxpqP72LBviMthhSzgG3UMeIEB62K9jd/s640/blogger-image-753750131.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Horses: 'Benson', 'Freya' and 'George':</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgu3D8tQrpQs2IWJKluTkjZ2Ohc3j6pDoBdm4jTVTja6Ox_u3MNQUcd3mbJfrbXBNjx24eR3IWuZ15q1VfvUixZKLZnxVItxkdYWMCBpX_R2McgzL9OpAEMl4uOn-t7oQUIhg3B-FFnGsRp/s640/blogger-image--28927403.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgu3D8tQrpQs2IWJKluTkjZ2Ohc3j6pDoBdm4jTVTja6Ox_u3MNQUcd3mbJfrbXBNjx24eR3IWuZ15q1VfvUixZKLZnxVItxkdYWMCBpX_R2McgzL9OpAEMl4uOn-t7oQUIhg3B-FFnGsRp/s640/blogger-image--28927403.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; 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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I don't want a lot for Christmas... Or, in the dulcet tones of Mariah Carey:</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Growing up I was one of those girls that just wanted a pony. I dreamed of owning my own pony to ride and groom and feed carrots. That was it. Nothing else. If you'd have asked me as a child what I wanted for Christmas ... I just really wanted a pony. Perhaps some felt-tip pens too.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">But you do have moments, I have moment, when you think, when I think 'An MS free Christmas', how simply fabulous would that be? But, Yes, if I got those things, if I got the things that are top of my list for an MS Free Christmas, if I got an end to my pain and a reduction in Fatigue: aka the energy to meet with Friend and to enjoy life, then I guess I would still probably, secretly still really really like a pony too... or a donkey ... and probably a puppy ... or a kitten ...</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-23272716240302656582014-12-19T09:10:00.001-08:002014-12-19T09:10:44.442-08:00PUPPYLOVE<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"<i>. . . and they call it Puppy Love, well I guess they'll never know how the young heart really feels. . </i>."</font></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_ExWrQp7ei4UGA0cwzoW-wureOk7EfwKbSXuSHX33IzgvEvvltotPncsaB5tKsR5906wFMIOrBtywNyx2wHab4ZSOq2xnnsyrJqQar9Jpp28kiYD8yU-uyRFlvvi6R3Z2fZ7JMOsFokn1/s640/blogger-image-753300999.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_ExWrQp7ei4UGA0cwzoW-wureOk7EfwKbSXuSHX33IzgvEvvltotPncsaB5tKsR5906wFMIOrBtywNyx2wHab4ZSOq2xnnsyrJqQar9Jpp28kiYD8yU-uyRFlvvi6R3Z2fZ7JMOsFokn1/s640/blogger-image-753300999.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I've fallen in Love. And he's small and cute and bouncy and perfect. He is 'Blu', or 'Flomiss Summer Snowfall' to give him his Kennel Club Registered Name. He's a beast. He is GORGEOUS. He isn't my dog. He belongs to my friend Brian. But I love him.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6efAfkbbcotMHPCQJ2VVo0aqFgaitwnI89cyWfd9iV-rajmEJotCGQ2DgRjZ53VB0VKF7ic7nm-myyyzkzYFHlJGzs64kUxriUSyiZUJqlpJYor_tBYtx0IfvgbVkR-KtutPs0W9SWgdN/s640/blogger-image--345004381.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6efAfkbbcotMHPCQJ2VVo0aqFgaitwnI89cyWfd9iV-rajmEJotCGQ2DgRjZ53VB0VKF7ic7nm-myyyzkzYFHlJGzs64kUxriUSyiZUJqlpJYor_tBYtx0IfvgbVkR-KtutPs0W9SWgdN/s640/blogger-image--345004381.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">'Puppy Love' is also known as a 'simple infatuation' or a 'crush'. This therefore is an informal term for a type of love. A powerful type of love, nonetheless. A type of affection. A type of adoration. A type of worship. It is often used to describe 'young love'; 'teenage love'; 'adolescent love; the type of devotion that is demonstrated by a puppy.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL4duzZ9nCPeqFAnBjXEer2bosEFfXalXfYMnB1SclKIhUnvt05a7Ias7maSS7gKJHj13DhLIc81TJL5jiejabhhYu3ygJ6pDpXxNYGpTiROCAAkU8zK3XoNGkbMR3Y4l6M3GcCaT4SB0i/s640/blogger-image-662068643.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL4duzZ9nCPeqFAnBjXEer2bosEFfXalXfYMnB1SclKIhUnvt05a7Ias7maSS7gKJHj13DhLIc81TJL5jiejabhhYu3ygJ6pDpXxNYGpTiROCAAkU8zK3XoNGkbMR3Y4l6M3GcCaT4SB0i/s640/blogger-image-662068643.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Paul ANKA released the song 'Puppy Love' in the 1960s; it was re-released by Donny OSMOND in 1972.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggZ9cWzNYN3-UUgVPXzDhQKC-zbNivMugWeQP5XVcUv2UJasRXebEitaX2ALWTZMFnrxskmT-vJBDBUhouqwcxDYf26fv5a_OnxRh7HL0Cqr7yI-t_h3_qo8VqAO185uw23jxbZN96JnHw/s640/blogger-image--1548704316.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggZ9cWzNYN3-UUgVPXzDhQKC-zbNivMugWeQP5XVcUv2UJasRXebEitaX2ALWTZMFnrxskmT-vJBDBUhouqwcxDYf26fv5a_OnxRh7HL0Cqr7yI-t_h3_qo8VqAO185uw23jxbZN96JnHw/s640/blogger-image--1548704316.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Sigmund FREUD understood the <span lang="EN">power of early love. In the Urban Dictionary 'Puppy Love' is sadly described as a love that will never last, due to the relationship being a love between a young couple - a 'blind affection' immature, young love, not real romantic love.</span></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvRn5-Gi_-j_MIZHJm2Ya1f8L7wa5ydd0rIJ4Ae0nEUl79TLwJBMFVmCmOlZy8gqZ78qrxiNhRiXgR-lXALO3rIRLcG83Od3WzE_L5U0cZF_eJNUrlEfospsQqd2XHYVabyN_7uAzVUaji/s640/blogger-image-2031113123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvRn5-Gi_-j_MIZHJm2Ya1f8L7wa5ydd0rIJ4Ae0nEUl79TLwJBMFVmCmOlZy8gqZ78qrxiNhRiXgR-lXALO3rIRLcG83Od3WzE_L5U0cZF_eJNUrlEfospsQqd2XHYVabyN_7uAzVUaji/s640/blogger-image-2031113123.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The Urban Dictionary in describing 'Puppy Love' as between a young couple, goes on to state that 'Puppy Love' "typically occurs before one person becomes a bitch." Well Really!</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVPbl36iGFibrE-l71XqmgCZEn_xFh0ZZdUoGevdCQYd02_ueLU80Kr6iBXkrqgjVXCORKPP5QtAPzvzTkjm274qLaa4Gu82wVon8LHoCMtRW23dAynKy2FTXSKDdBd1nUXHqyJbHSxRpW/s640/blogger-image-708692245.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVPbl36iGFibrE-l71XqmgCZEn_xFh0ZZdUoGevdCQYd02_ueLU80Kr6iBXkrqgjVXCORKPP5QtAPzvzTkjm274qLaa4Gu82wVon8LHoCMtRW23dAynKy2FTXSKDdBd1nUXHqyJbHSxRpW/s640/blogger-image-708692245.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">For me 'Puppy Love' is 'Blu'. 'Blu' is Brian's puppy, and he is now six months old. We collected him when he was twelve weeks old, and WOW how that time has flown, and what adventures we have had including two Leicester Animal Aid (LAA) shows and places in the 'Cutest Puppy' classes, which won him medals. Trips to the Park to chase squirrels, and trips to 'Pebble Beach'. Initially Blu was reluctant to even paddle at Pebble Beach, but now he is much braver and very much enjoys splashing about and getting wet through.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHAeqRn8NGCDGXxPDR65kDi3GN7CmDMm9nzY_61t5er_z4IpqyWiVjGoVSw07A71FfiCjyksJ6tr3FPhFIhw2EJSYskUu78j88Im6GhVWEb752GVJyIYJ3yvo92jRXfrmU3E_wyZ7VEpIQ/s640/blogger-image-1763289987.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHAeqRn8NGCDGXxPDR65kDi3GN7CmDMm9nzY_61t5er_z4IpqyWiVjGoVSw07A71FfiCjyksJ6tr3FPhFIhw2EJSYskUu78j88Im6GhVWEb752GVJyIYJ3yvo92jRXfrmU3E_wyZ7VEpIQ/s640/blogger-image-1763289987.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The unconditional love of a puppy largely, it has to be admitted, is associated with a love of Dog Biscuits and of Dog Treats. That his 'unconditional love' is perhaps 'cupboard love'. But he is also rather partial to an ear rub and a tummy tickle. He rather enjoys digging; and he likes his dog toys - including his 'honking' Duck. Just the thing for a Golden Retriever.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwzbKlAZawxqGjN4oCEakPZaRSZDbbCCQUGcLb9JLNspBkenrgiL5G0O3pH0sDAC34-YnLq2m6LBKlKCT156nMjicX3-pz5TjlV9BsqwjP7Bm1LnXS2wPOCi_Kmd5QSc8ns5MLSiWk7gxv/s640/blogger-image-1228955037.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwzbKlAZawxqGjN4oCEakPZaRSZDbbCCQUGcLb9JLNspBkenrgiL5G0O3pH0sDAC34-YnLq2m6LBKlKCT156nMjicX3-pz5TjlV9BsqwjP7Bm1LnXS2wPOCi_Kmd5QSc8ns5MLSiWk7gxv/s640/blogger-image-1228955037.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Blu has had a huge impact upon Brian's life, being his reason to get up every morning, and his reason to get out and go for a walk and be social and talk to the other dog owners and dog walkers. It is hugely social, and gives them both plenty of exercise. Blu is Brian's constant companion. All sorts of adventures. They are currently in training for 'Best Sausage Catcher' at next year's LAA Show's. Brian admits that Blu is the centre of his world, and he'd be lost without him. And, looking at Blu, I think the feeling is mutual. It is true that for Brian Blu is an important part of his life; but for Blu Brian is his whole life.</span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7-6eKRsnrHrQexWFxO9uU8iiUDTtuIVARYc2dXs85MU4tex_G3Uqv_fBYBtV539FrFXuBfxQ2NUfmcgyR19Qcz6x4kc6PhqVUSm-CjY4B8G3PELlhO5b0ELIpfkhP8v419k2CsLe-MlI5/s640/blogger-image-459730374.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7-6eKRsnrHrQexWFxO9uU8iiUDTtuIVARYc2dXs85MU4tex_G3Uqv_fBYBtV539FrFXuBfxQ2NUfmcgyR19Qcz6x4kc6PhqVUSm-CjY4B8G3PELlhO5b0ELIpfkhP8v419k2CsLe-MlI5/s640/blogger-image-459730374.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font>And I admit, Blu has also had a huge impact upon my life, he is always pleased to see me, wags his tail, and gives me a reason to get up and get out and join Brian for a walk.</font></span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-86364664952282099062014-12-12T09:30:00.001-08:002014-12-12T09:30:18.039-08:00SLEEP<div style="text-align: start; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I'm tired. I want to sleep. I just want to sleep. When I'm asleep it doesn't hurt. It doesn't hurt anymore. There isn't any pain when I'm asleep. No pain physically. No pain emotionally. The thing is that I've just had enough. Enough of the pain. I just want to sleep.</font></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJJaG9ln1J7JgdFPA7geNjo33ll6VPKysLfOv-6-weuCaYjfY_n2Nrg8zkphuW-6be12lE_HAkPwvyfXs0ChRCw9cRdUdP5_mO8wWZ_kkCZbLNl4GzAbQrXJzMBmHJW4250LtUUzbGv-oT/s640/blogger-image--322803127.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJJaG9ln1J7JgdFPA7geNjo33ll6VPKysLfOv-6-weuCaYjfY_n2Nrg8zkphuW-6be12lE_HAkPwvyfXs0ChRCw9cRdUdP5_mO8wWZ_kkCZbLNl4GzAbQrXJzMBmHJW4250LtUUzbGv-oT/s640/blogger-image--322803127.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="text-align: start; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"<i>To sleep perchance to dream</i>." Shakespeare, Hamlet, Act3, Scene1</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="text-align: start; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">This is the part of Hamlet's famous soliloquy which begins, "<i>To be or not to be",</i> which reveals Hamlet's thoughts on suicide and addresses Hamlet's mental anguish. Hamlet it tortured by the fear that there might not be any peace after death. "<i>For even in that sleep of death what dreams might come?"</i></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzdK9EzBCRlKE8FTCg4aJ4hyipfavC4KE9NBnIMPC0KV3TlesmQ4yM1unVaaA7tLnGmE0V33zlJHAOVeHeI1Wzv5-hZc6u8CQN-Mfle_H0H2Ab17ykQupH1k62_2ecdVf_LKfXr6BTw-1-/s640/blogger-image-1764715624.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzdK9EzBCRlKE8FTCg4aJ4hyipfavC4KE9NBnIMPC0KV3TlesmQ4yM1unVaaA7tLnGmE0V33zlJHAOVeHeI1Wzv5-hZc6u8CQN-Mfle_H0H2Ab17ykQupH1k62_2ecdVf_LKfXr6BTw-1-/s640/blogger-image-1764715624.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Sleep is restorative. Sleep encourages and accentuates the growth and rejuvenation of the immune system. There are many benefits of sleep. We are more productive during the day following a good night sleep. Except, quite often I can't sleep. I have Insomnia. Insomnia is a sleep disorder. Despite spending all day feeling fatigued I experience Insomnia at night, not every night. But on those occasions when I do it really is the worst kind of vicious circle: tired all day / can't sleep all night.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4mORraGAjKV3obdK9k65l1G2imghnHsviQGuigk5fNgSwBsklsXmCTYGWTeQEWT_25-sjrP_YfFJNbpJa19b-ebS-4hBiKJrlFXcZX6iyNUnJC8IpkKpK8_bXszP29GJUWdDx49Jzg8tI/s640/blogger-image-616891318.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4mORraGAjKV3obdK9k65l1G2imghnHsviQGuigk5fNgSwBsklsXmCTYGWTeQEWT_25-sjrP_YfFJNbpJa19b-ebS-4hBiKJrlFXcZX6iyNUnJC8IpkKpK8_bXszP29GJUWdDx49Jzg8tI/s640/blogger-image-616891318.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So, I can't sleep. I have no escape. I have no escape from the pain. I lay awake, and I think and I think and I over-think.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieLA4snLErx5h8GY5HQUXp9SA-5rOjoJgvNkxZ8sLIwcsLTPswVWvVlUQzuAIIpDvzPplh3klqjy_5DpJL9btKapWM_su9DMbw_GQF6yPE1U0YfWaxH_gMxUDscYQae7UysCaRh_CENFly/s640/blogger-image-1026811428.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieLA4snLErx5h8GY5HQUXp9SA-5rOjoJgvNkxZ8sLIwcsLTPswVWvVlUQzuAIIpDvzPplh3klqjy_5DpJL9btKapWM_su9DMbw_GQF6yPE1U0YfWaxH_gMxUDscYQae7UysCaRh_CENFly/s640/blogger-image-1026811428.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Insomnia is difficulty sleeping. Difficulty in getting to sleep or difficulty staying asleep for long enough to get a good night sleep and rest; enough to wake up feeling refreshed the next morning. Insomnia and lack of sleep can lean to fatigue; which can affect your mood and affect your relationships with loved ones and others. Makes you irritable. </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAd0yYtwUrBvhYLKcSIXz1rxQv6Rtqjx5vvC52LpiCGXGJdTphgGbdkheTPessR70wVumrUK_Q2hKgsUPO-qHqkrJvkIz0NF9jupl6DGqq3UUCPh1GFGNb5IlH1Xf17NlgQqK-xyadgyMT/s640/blogger-image-1030627271.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAd0yYtwUrBvhYLKcSIXz1rxQv6Rtqjx5vvC52LpiCGXGJdTphgGbdkheTPessR70wVumrUK_Q2hKgsUPO-qHqkrJvkIz0NF9jupl6DGqq3UUCPh1GFGNb5IlH1Xf17NlgQqK-xyadgyMT/s640/blogger-image-1030627271.jpg"></a></div></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Sleep is often the stuff of fairy tales: 'Sleeping Beauty' is a fairy tale involving a Beautiful Princess, a sleeping enchantment and a Handsome Prince. The Princess pricks her finger with a pin and falls asleep for a hundred years, only to be awakened by true loves kiss. 'The Princess and the Pea' is a fairy tale involving a Beautiful Princess and an uncomfortable bed. I love fairy tales. I love sleep. I love pain-free sleep.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKvm0REZVDHJKNdLLdZL5x358LAQZG0GLztFeEL0w34tDaDhX7r2M3JeB8Ib5Bmvqfo0u-NjkbUTNtbIJwN6_6pJiKKGiv8MftFf41cM2rmviYR-cMhMx_AaScb_a-BX8LxIN2EhqEXSGL/s640/blogger-image-804462983.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKvm0REZVDHJKNdLLdZL5x358LAQZG0GLztFeEL0w34tDaDhX7r2M3JeB8Ib5Bmvqfo0u-NjkbUTNtbIJwN6_6pJiKKGiv8MftFf41cM2rmviYR-cMhMx_AaScb_a-BX8LxIN2EhqEXSGL/s640/blogger-image-804462983.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So. Good Night. Sweet Dreams</font></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-40758396517986312362014-12-06T13:46:00.001-08:002014-12-06T13:46:49.525-08:00COFFEE<div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">What a treat.</span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">To be taken out for coffee.</span></div><div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVf6FIBt129hZj8wlpwAYKeVgUdL3KRULlXre7SwfxwsGtpW9ou7wv_XEolJ0h-PUtDYYMGrYHHskw_Pm0k_7xh0_3twB5sDBs2bRm64mECKaVczLBhmiWyDE61FPjWmEz3rJr6Xfx6mP8/s640/blogger-image--1903827023.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVf6FIBt129hZj8wlpwAYKeVgUdL3KRULlXre7SwfxwsGtpW9ou7wv_XEolJ0h-PUtDYYMGrYHHskw_Pm0k_7xh0_3twB5sDBs2bRm64mECKaVczLBhmiWyDE61FPjWmEz3rJr6Xfx6mP8/s640/blogger-image--1903827023.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Coffee and Good Chat. Two things I like best.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixuTCliQhlzQ9j-sRxJVkTALJewdIeRVLbPiG7SquoCjQkvVkpmbzWPniWGAVrQ_cxQOZR69RVfqbbZ8UJv1p3ujqHbVSY7L-DjG3yfjQIuGN_JZd8lBUse0q1Qh01fqinrRlc2Mfh5ld9/s640/blogger-image--527215293.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixuTCliQhlzQ9j-sRxJVkTALJewdIeRVLbPiG7SquoCjQkvVkpmbzWPniWGAVrQ_cxQOZR69RVfqbbZ8UJv1p3ujqHbVSY7L-DjG3yfjQIuGN_JZd8lBUse0q1Qh01fqinrRlc2Mfh5ld9/s640/blogger-image--527215293.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Coffee, Good Chat, and Cake. BOOM! Win Win Win.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin96-wD4OPtWLYdaJCBKsK5lcHu_uugJ7bBZOIpR9nMhvrhyphenhyphenM7D2ufkw6bBtZr341DKZfC8AhphUQofJ28oK1Wuj75yP8jHEYDXo5CA7U9XQfUjinxFvFiQ13JH74q3P_L5q0rjt7nYxXH/s640/blogger-image-1393625171.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin96-wD4OPtWLYdaJCBKsK5lcHu_uugJ7bBZOIpR9nMhvrhyphenhyphenM7D2ufkw6bBtZr341DKZfC8AhphUQofJ28oK1Wuj75yP8jHEYDXo5CA7U9XQfUjinxFvFiQ13JH74q3P_L5q0rjt7nYxXH/s640/blogger-image-1393625171.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And Caffeine has been found to be a potent pain killer. So, when my MS is causing me chronic pain, which it does; when I am in real real PAIN, what could be nicer, could be lovelier than to be taken out for coffee. Or when I am feeling SO terrible, so so very terrible that I can't even make it out, to have such a wonderful friend that will think to bring me coffee. How amazing are my friends. Even Sonic was impressed.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijnxIyXPlWCsnZUgn1vet8Xbdm0QnZCxxRIE8FziZXd2OL39nwMZtTTLFQM1zr_UqiesKfqTkFNEg_JKKEIzxQ4_ItGDvvBJYbOvC68eTh0m-xIeBgqp1m3cW249oWZTWnPZ7xWslPFb7_/s640/blogger-image--1332769289.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijnxIyXPlWCsnZUgn1vet8Xbdm0QnZCxxRIE8FziZXd2OL39nwMZtTTLFQM1zr_UqiesKfqTkFNEg_JKKEIzxQ4_ItGDvvBJYbOvC68eTh0m-xIeBgqp1m3cW249oWZTWnPZ7xWslPFb7_/s640/blogger-image--1332769289.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span lang="EN-US">Caffeine </span>is a powerful stimulant that affects the central nervous system. And Caffeine is an added ingredient to many over-the-counter and prescription pain medications, as it aids the 'take up' on the pain medication and its absorption into the body.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfxBX-Eyuu3gUBuy35AOEfFWB8vJ1k9sU2_Gdxp9Y23xhUJ5755UoTMQxDzwPqw3XUPjVqRdFfg24kkdFLGceX-cwl_WOVMrj1XKRi2msaXqzQZjvjzwFURRJ0RXan1MYttlVZUhoMQzzu/s640/blogger-image--589606623.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfxBX-Eyuu3gUBuy35AOEfFWB8vJ1k9sU2_Gdxp9Y23xhUJ5755UoTMQxDzwPqw3XUPjVqRdFfg24kkdFLGceX-cwl_WOVMrj1XKRi2msaXqzQZjvjzwFURRJ0RXan1MYttlVZUhoMQzzu/s640/blogger-image--589606623.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">There are probably four people that I really really should thank over everyone else; who have ensured that I am taken out for coffee, or stay in for coffee. In no particular order: Papa, John, Jill and Geraldine. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You.</font></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-40039318850631270122014-11-28T02:44:00.001-08:002014-11-28T04:22:42.935-08:00UHL-tr<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">University Hospitals of Leicester NHS Trust promote its value which is to practice 'caring at its best'; and while my visit wasn't faultless and there were a couple of minor issues regarding clear communication and management of patient expectations; the standard of care I received was impeccable, and while I don't like to name names as inevitably you forget someone and have to later go back and include them; it really would be churlish of me not to lavish at least a little praise firstly and fore mostly upon Carol WARD and Liz GALVIN; but also upon Sophia PATEL and Dawn WILLIAMS who all went above and beyond to ensure that my stay was absolutely as comfortable as possible. And I must say Thank You to Ann TOVEY with whom I shared a room and who was very good natured and friendly, who didn't snore and who lent me her shampoo.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">The staff ensured I was hydrated with water (Liz) and tea (Carol) - a very high priority and very much appreciated. They explained all the buttons of how to operate the moving bed which kept me entertained for a while (Yes! I am easily amused) and a million little things that they did that made me feel that my care was a priority to them, and that nothing that I asked was too much trouble. There are others, many others that I should thank, representatives from Occupational Therapy or Physiotherapy (I'm not sure which) who were incredibly helpful, but especially Kareena BASSAN the Physiotherapist who sorted me out a pair of matching crutches, which was marvellous and who spent the time assessing me with them and ensuring that I was able to use them with confidence.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">In August 2014 new Hospital Food Rules were introduced which highlights the expectation for the hospital to provide a higher standard of food under the new measures announced by the Secretary of State for Health (Jeremy HUNT). Although the 'Campaign for Better Hospital Food' said that the proposed changes were 'woefully inadequate'. TV Chef James Martin of 'Ready Steady Cook' and 'Saturday Kitchen' fame has embarked upon a mission to transform the standard of the nation's hospital food (Operation Hospital Food) with some positive results. As I said not an easily task to be the food provider, so I am very thankful for what I received.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And then, my tremendous thanks go to the Neurologists and Neurology Team, especially to Dr. Critchley who it is noted looked especially dapper in his Bow-Tie; who conducted his rounds with professionalism, understanding and good humour, which is amazing considering he has the unenviable task of trying to diagnose and find out what is wrong, when MS is widely known as the 'snowflake disease' i.e. no two are the same and it must be like trying to 'understand the understandable' and 'diagnose the un-diagnosable'. Good Job Dr. C.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-35794745073289034022014-11-26T14:37:00.001-08:002014-11-27T03:19:58.595-08:00THE IMITATION GAME<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Alan Mathison Turing:</font></b></div><div><b style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">23 June 1912 - 7 June 1954</b></div><div><b style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Mathematician, logician, cryptanalyst, computer scientist, philosopher and hero</b></div><div><b style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Hut 8</b></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdfM2N9Pj_WjJOxszV3p3Op2pbX4LIZ8gm7dk7j-D3kRsbGHWCyC_sPFGfni9q-McPOF8WeWCiQAfkEg_wVRkDhMhNE3b0KaywWPoSih-kJ98OaWwqD_IzK3uaMrvtQGgaO9FHi6LAaYtD/s640/blogger-image-1699617186.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdfM2N9Pj_WjJOxszV3p3Op2pbX4LIZ8gm7dk7j-D3kRsbGHWCyC_sPFGfni9q-McPOF8WeWCiQAfkEg_wVRkDhMhNE3b0KaywWPoSih-kJ98OaWwqD_IzK3uaMrvtQGgaO9FHi6LAaYtD/s640/blogger-image-1699617186.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Mr. P.J. Evans wrote a BLOG piece 'The Imitation Game: Fact and Fiction. And I love what he has to say and in lots of ways feel that I haven't got anything to say, as he has said it all for me. It really is well worth a read.</span></div><div><b><a href="http://mrpjevans.com/2014/11/the-imitation-game-fact-and-fiction/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">http://mrpjevans.com/2014/11/the-imitation-game-fact-and-fiction/</a></b></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV_JDOOj7ulGvDUnC4ffJ3PSpR1-oO-sCnT1J4MltX5PNfjUFL5dIONx1i7Dj5dK4SzXVn-ywql27t0trLoVkhIUbnp9w-z9a_nSaeZ-eujbsCY_v5cDhd1UvbhTOAoLZSl8QrEjlrEVC3/s640/blogger-image-1670826040.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV_JDOOj7ulGvDUnC4ffJ3PSpR1-oO-sCnT1J4MltX5PNfjUFL5dIONx1i7Dj5dK4SzXVn-ywql27t0trLoVkhIUbnp9w-z9a_nSaeZ-eujbsCY_v5cDhd1UvbhTOAoLZSl8QrEjlrEVC3/s640/blogger-image-1670826040.jpg"></a></div></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The Imitation Game is a film made in 2014 about the World of the 1940s. This was a very different World. A World that we can hardly understand today. This was a World without Computers, a world where if a girl was 25 and unmarried there was serious concern. They were 'left on the shelf'. The Horror. The Shame. I am 41 and am unmarried. I am convinced Papa would sell me on eBay if only he knew how to access eBay. Although I am getting a little worried as he can now text without sticking his tongue </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC9rPewyRlTogD26QiYAC0SlozDWdz8aeYckCNM8ekiW9-5vVX68NpgEvbF6HFG0LLL45s3JBP1LQ1u2Cc_mcho2WOJ_peIeI0SqtFhi0on_8_jLh9CoeTs78JTquM0N7_jKhw-lJa6G8x/s640/blogger-image-1872727743.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC9rPewyRlTogD26QiYAC0SlozDWdz8aeYckCNM8ekiW9-5vVX68NpgEvbF6HFG0LLL45s3JBP1LQ1u2Cc_mcho2WOJ_peIeI0SqtFhi0on_8_jLh9CoeTs78JTquM0N7_jKhw-lJa6G8x/s640/blogger-image-1872727743.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Keira KNIGHTLY is beautifully cast as Joan CLARKE and her warmth and frank intelligence shines as a woman inhabiting a man's world, and you see why Alan TURING obviously respected her intelligence. The role of Joan CLARKE is perhaps glorified and exaggerated to make more of a role for Keira KNIGHTLEY. But, it is a film, it is a story, it is as many people have said a 'film' not a 'documentary'. It doesn't claim to be the 'real' and 'definitive' story. It aims to entertain, and it does. It entertains and it educates. It is a story based upon facts, and if you want to know the real story, read the books and go to Bletchley Park. Please Please Please visit Bletchley Park.</span></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfRveTdgeex2iFjg93p0WEM9ENoqWN-h8L0oUsySreAiQG8NGJ0fd6SMuv0To1WxCxIO4RfPMUBJJruTU_9KHDJrhxgCRN_Iv8lzrO5CzwbAs7APjT98tq0rvsF-blNTn8zXgGO4pUlU-z/s640/blogger-image-803104745.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfRveTdgeex2iFjg93p0WEM9ENoqWN-h8L0oUsySreAiQG8NGJ0fd6SMuv0To1WxCxIO4RfPMUBJJruTU_9KHDJrhxgCRN_Iv8lzrO5CzwbAs7APjT98tq0rvsF-blNTn8zXgGO4pUlU-z/s640/blogger-image-803104745.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Dr. Sue BLACK was instrumental in 2008 in setting up a website and starting a campaign to save Bletchley Park, <span lang="EN">trying to raise public awareness of Bletchley Park and the importance of the role of the people who worked there:</span></span></div><div><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://savingbletchleypark.org/About-the-campaign.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://savingbletchleypark.org/About-the-campaign.html</a></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhunhiqgRVt7DaY3a9kS9PeqsKacccBXfmqcyf7qfsH9jZvR44rZKAM8AbFKawwytPdcknB0A4Fan5S36Wo6JaaXwFSHA1TngvyuHVheDf4WUSVRI4URx1g2IQOArPH2rt53mzEPGAQKLch/s640/blogger-image-1042921061.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhunhiqgRVt7DaY3a9kS9PeqsKacccBXfmqcyf7qfsH9jZvR44rZKAM8AbFKawwytPdcknB0A4Fan5S36Wo6JaaXwFSHA1TngvyuHVheDf4WUSVRI4URx1g2IQOArPH2rt53mzEPGAQKLch/s640/blogger-image-1042921061.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Dr. Black was also instrumental in the campaign to put Alan Turing on the back of the £10 Bank Note, which became a e-petition:</span></div><div><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/31659" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/31659</a></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisukmznzMDdwGRN9AqSDrR1BD_Gd1yXJm4_aNa-znH2GnkWdJpPsxzJFcX223hD4k_Em4PJeYCjEr1qEsDy6uqDgd9chyphenhyphenoJAgOnKEDCvv9pvjRznzN277dP4qUpK9Mns5FwyMn7Cy5Cjml/s640/blogger-image--1471635101.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisukmznzMDdwGRN9AqSDrR1BD_Gd1yXJm4_aNa-znH2GnkWdJpPsxzJFcX223hD4k_Em4PJeYCjEr1qEsDy6uqDgd9chyphenhyphenoJAgOnKEDCvv9pvjRznzN277dP4qUpK9Mns5FwyMn7Cy5Cjml/s640/blogger-image--1471635101.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span lang="EN">Yes, the film was an oversimplification of events. In reality more than ten thousand, a reference to people worked at Bletchley Park, more than eight thousand of them were women. The Bombe prototype is fondly referred to as 'Christopher' in the film, a reference to 'Christopher MORCOMB' Turing's School friend at </span>Sherborne, who like Turing excelled at Maths and Science. They were 16 when they met. Christopher suddenly and tragically died two years later on Valentine's Day 1930 <span lang="EN">from complications of bovine tuberculosis contracted after drinking infected cow's milk some years previously. Turing didn't build the Bombe himself at didn't refer to it as Christopher; but this is a story.</span></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgtPUXzL1lVS9I-PHORZ0b4sRv9FjlS9CpFOr9vg1r0h4Wk1aX6KtUU2nG6Iix0FB_hKxKYkW5qL6W7KFy7StcCQrXVLq9_VvpoNzoO_kMH3OvRmROBnHECfCOXgd1EmLx5hTSUUJwnyyZ/s640/blogger-image-2045557927.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgtPUXzL1lVS9I-PHORZ0b4sRv9FjlS9CpFOr9vg1r0h4Wk1aX6KtUU2nG6Iix0FB_hKxKYkW5qL6W7KFy7StcCQrXVLq9_VvpoNzoO_kMH3OvRmROBnHECfCOXgd1EmLx5hTSUUJwnyyZ/s640/blogger-image-2045557927.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">This is not only a World where a single girl of 25 is a concern; and cannot become a fellow of Cambridge University because she is female; this is a wicked, judgemental and intolerant World, a World where it was illegal to be Homosexual. The persecution of Alan TURING for being gay and his subsequent 'Chemical Castration' really is unspeakably shameful. That a society so lacked understanding is unbelievable and is embarrassing. That this punishment was in any way considered fair and just is unthinkable. In a Society today, which is, thankfully more educated, and more tolerant it is just sickening and shaming to look back upon. Political Changes have thankfully been brought about ensuring that Society is more tolerant and follows more robust principles of equality.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqSfEKmmhE5aumpXiKOpGDew7fc65-WOPn-hvEjjxBK9e9K1aBD5AsT9r7ECbx2aoSOVm7EY0dtZyd2jqK0iWZYo3kjBuIESTnNQpGuQJPoQmpJ1vJOAsnBVzppjJQB-ES8RBtj6rX6iIQ/s640/blogger-image--2082742521.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqSfEKmmhE5aumpXiKOpGDew7fc65-WOPn-hvEjjxBK9e9K1aBD5AsT9r7ECbx2aoSOVm7EY0dtZyd2jqK0iWZYo3kjBuIESTnNQpGuQJPoQmpJ1vJOAsnBVzppjJQB-ES8RBtj6rX6iIQ/s640/blogger-image--2082742521.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">We cannot change the past. We can only learn from it. Gordon Brown as Prime Minister may well have apologised and pardoned Alan TURING but I agree with Mr. P.J. EVANS that until everyone so barbarically treated receives an apology the matter is not closed.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxk332X3ZDQ9Tw7OZArYmX1i5GdFdOqQgNumWkj__nPd30ANEXN-BH4W7a4A-0OTgIuDKP1ecahaRRS2ynWXc1vJf9IJXfeCiTIdCmWto133ZDMG5mGBtBTDJyRquaA6DTdqJ-hP0m5Pt7/s640/blogger-image-1740822911.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxk332X3ZDQ9Tw7OZArYmX1i5GdFdOqQgNumWkj__nPd30ANEXN-BH4W7a4A-0OTgIuDKP1ecahaRRS2ynWXc1vJf9IJXfeCiTIdCmWto133ZDMG5mGBtBTDJyRquaA6DTdqJ-hP0m5Pt7/s640/blogger-image-1740822911.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I think that an apology is somehow not enough. Alan TURING did break the law of the land, regardless of the fact that it is shameful that such a law ever existed, and he was punished. But the punishment was unthinkable and inexcusable and marks a very sad period in our history and evolution. It is Society who should be begging for a pardon from Alan TURING for subjecting him to such a barbaric and heinous punishment. </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font color="#000000"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/nov/14/imitation-game-alan-turing-benedict-cumberbatch" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><span style="text-decoration: none;">A celebration of the life of Alan TURING is certainly not before time. </span></a>Benedict CUMBERBATCH is, and I am biased, as I think he is splendid; but he is SPLENDID. Simply Splendid. He really is as Alan TURING was, or as I like to think he was; a little bit different, a little bit clever, a little bit impatient, a little bit at odds with the world around him, an 'odd duck' as his mother used to refer to him so we are told. Alan TURING was an outsider that didn't fit in and somehow doesn't belong. Benedict CUMBERBATCH does somehow capture the essence of what I believe, or what I want to believe Alan Turing was like. Yes, there is something of the cliché about him, about his performance as the 'absent minded Professor' but having worked in Higher Education Institutions and not wishing to be rude, but, there are some qualities that are almost expected intrinsic qualities of academic personalities. Academics who are completely oblivious to the fact that they are wearing their shirt inside out and, with a childlike-innocence are completely unaware that to other this may be regarded an unusual behaviour.</span></font></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDubNojTH0DLYiJEtix7T0jplDfvxFgSLF_EISx9Z-Vxc6jPLM2o-vaItKkV5KCrKu7jCbWyHnDMxHMZF7bsgHwq9JKIFsSJHFCembHZfVQz7mSLNaQr1xaV5yPc71o4l3mdls8dN32J3n/s640/blogger-image--1768136825.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDubNojTH0DLYiJEtix7T0jplDfvxFgSLF_EISx9Z-Vxc6jPLM2o-vaItKkV5KCrKu7jCbWyHnDMxHMZF7bsgHwq9JKIFsSJHFCembHZfVQz7mSLNaQr1xaV5yPc71o4l3mdls8dN32J3n/s640/blogger-image--1768136825.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Personally I adore absurdity; I am drawn to it like a moth to a flame. Intelligence and absurdity. </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Alan TURING wasn't a superhero but he did, with the help of many other exceptional characters achieve the unachievable and break the unbreakable. He should be celebrated, my goodness he should be celebrated and I have not even mentioned the work he did to establish Computer Science; and his Mathematical Papers 'Computing Machinery & Intelligence' which <span lang="EN">considered the question can machines think, he devised the Turing Test, or </span>'The Imitation Game' from which the film takes its name, all of which slightly confuses me if I am brutally honest.</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzrjzVX5Y3ZVFQcYcVNEYZjGWFUYkk5gBUZeHCw2cq914K06ucdxliFvpeIhtL2Z31kYVL0HltBzrS-jbzyQdzY1f-BM5UzkH4zNBDGTKxL2CzGnP7OYWwXFNh0AXdF_X-oDSKWWUOD-YX/s640/blogger-image-1240230244.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzrjzVX5Y3ZVFQcYcVNEYZjGWFUYkk5gBUZeHCw2cq914K06ucdxliFvpeIhtL2Z31kYVL0HltBzrS-jbzyQdzY1f-BM5UzkH4zNBDGTKxL2CzGnP7OYWwXFNh0AXdF_X-oDSKWWUOD-YX/s640/blogger-image-1240230244.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">As the quote that runs throughout the film promotes:</span></div><div><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"Sometimes it is the people no one imagines anything of who do the things that no one can imagine."</font></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-51834148750687502462014-11-21T04:32:00.001-08:002014-11-21T05:46:45.315-08:00VW BUG<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I loved my car. My VW Beetle. My Bug. My Platinum Grey Bug.</font></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglkjsBAok5QekpmxUE_v2e4gUeLFFqNcYpL-IpMC_9bP7WkrO8KhX-X_AFxuYjrwB4EsRev8NwFm9yKsZQ8D83U3Psdv5TmGtrIKSOlL8daMa_X4zIpwgmpQ9ZVwEUSihBjSCs-RNyWhyu/s640/blogger-image-354559289.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglkjsBAok5QekpmxUE_v2e4gUeLFFqNcYpL-IpMC_9bP7WkrO8KhX-X_AFxuYjrwB4EsRev8NwFm9yKsZQ8D83U3Psdv5TmGtrIKSOlL8daMa_X4zIpwgmpQ9ZVwEUSihBjSCs-RNyWhyu/s640/blogger-image-354559289.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I say 'loved', I speak in the past tense, as the other week I was forced to sell her. I say 'her' as I had named her. I named her 'Scout'. I named her after the narrator in 'To Kill A Mockingbird'. I had to sell her as I hadn't driven her. I hadn't driven her in the last c. six months due to my poor balance and poor spatial awareness, which are only getting worse. My poor balance and my poor spatial awareness due to my MS.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgd0Efr-bwuaB4jDa5eNmTSes1SZOBBNjHK2Gy1n1ReGPv-dORM5hYZv1hFOByy6lTALaI9Pi808tCMulkvpUuuA-e-jQ0SvdVQNy6NJw1Gor-fY_RSM7OZmKjsjK7bGleIxkWiXYZGilF8/s640/blogger-image--868108622.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgd0Efr-bwuaB4jDa5eNmTSes1SZOBBNjHK2Gy1n1ReGPv-dORM5hYZv1hFOByy6lTALaI9Pi808tCMulkvpUuuA-e-jQ0SvdVQNy6NJw1Gor-fY_RSM7OZmKjsjK7bGleIxkWiXYZGilF8/s640/blogger-image--868108622.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The DVLA returned my driving licence the other week, I'd had to send it off to be reviewed (my licence is only issued for a fixed period of three years), and after about three months I had it returned and renewed for another three years. So technically I am legal and road worthy. I had a driving test about a year ago at work to enable me to drive the fleet vehicles, and I passed that and they didn't raise any concerns about my ability to drive. But, so much has happened in a year, and I know in my heart of hearts that although I have my licence that I am at an increased risk of having an accident and this is a risk that I cannot take.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4v9JkdjfN6UCVplwcB41wch5SQxgHQ_5ItQEhH8qhyphenhyphenO5d4vwVJhbR_ukZWB7pD6g3fs2Evx69IVoBB9Jiol6ekmtltzxA9EBWs7JEK-4hgd1XsFl42-9LkxCG4yfSmD-0M8OFTOQVmfMr/s640/blogger-image--182387811.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4v9JkdjfN6UCVplwcB41wch5SQxgHQ_5ItQEhH8qhyphenhyphenO5d4vwVJhbR_ukZWB7pD6g3fs2Evx69IVoBB9Jiol6ekmtltzxA9EBWs7JEK-4hgd1XsFl42-9LkxCG4yfSmD-0M8OFTOQVmfMr/s640/blogger-image--182387811.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The decision to sell my car, to sell 'Scout' however was not a decision that I took lightly; and was not a decision that I wanted to make at all. I didn't want to sell her. I really didn't want to sell her. It broke my heart; it really honestly, absolutely broke my heart. To watch someone drive away in Scout, knowing that she was no longer mine and wasn't coming back, was utterly utterly heart-breaking. and Yes, I did I sobbed. I sobbed for about three days. I have tears welling now just thinking about it. It seems so fucking unfair.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSnI3R3GrU7UP9kTYtKH7CksZYDfcRCvlu4OtodKerZybHtxBpwyOvxSSbdCIHxbK3YAVMvnH72Mr17f_WJOUu7d0mker5GdZVDeY4-9Y71nmZVOQJZg4S3621EyhHtyNRoqW1Yz1lWKT0/s640/blogger-image-923210150.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSnI3R3GrU7UP9kTYtKH7CksZYDfcRCvlu4OtodKerZybHtxBpwyOvxSSbdCIHxbK3YAVMvnH72Mr17f_WJOUu7d0mker5GdZVDeY4-9Y71nmZVOQJZg4S3621EyhHtyNRoqW1Yz1lWKT0/s640/blogger-image-923210150.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">But, as much as I loved the car, it isn't so much the car, as the car is an inanimate object, but it is everything that she represented. My Freedom. My Independence. They are gone. So, now as well as 'mourning' the loss of my health, I am 'mourning' the loss of 'Scout; and am 'mourning' the loss of the Freedom and the loss of my Independence that Scout afforded me.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5eQ2PD7PNFaKakjj6o-oYqvn9luBAMCYd4UnbnLXQ2tqcyIPnQXyQOHTjV2AmvgabqUdaKzHUs1tNoR6EVcljwvM6pnU383hdm06foUdQAmudzvQkGW2djibC_6GAuNKS-IDhMA6jUyMo/s640/blogger-image--2085700377.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5eQ2PD7PNFaKakjj6o-oYqvn9luBAMCYd4UnbnLXQ2tqcyIPnQXyQOHTjV2AmvgabqUdaKzHUs1tNoR6EVcljwvM6pnU383hdm06foUdQAmudzvQkGW2djibC_6GAuNKS-IDhMA6jUyMo/s640/blogger-image--2085700377.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And we had some adventures. Blimey did we have some adventures. Up to Newcastle. Over to Wales. Down to Southampton. Up to Liverpool. Up and down the Country. We went to visit a friend in AMAZINGstoke. We went to Oxford. We went to Cambridge. We navigated Milton Keynes. And even with my TERRIBLE sense of direction and inability to Map Read and No SatNav; we still always managed to navigate our way wherever we were going. Adventures aplenty.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjf20pZFPfqrQbl_5VM4F04Z3kcjzp0YWrWLT2rXDCwbHpvBhz2qqm5IDw3IR1JtWS0Up1me1TTigD8-qIXFBKfWCpFk2GaUfEBYU6wzGnoixkXX3-nxT45V0wQ-SIDHnOlifB1RtxqTkwO/s640/blogger-image--948780712.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjf20pZFPfqrQbl_5VM4F04Z3kcjzp0YWrWLT2rXDCwbHpvBhz2qqm5IDw3IR1JtWS0Up1me1TTigD8-qIXFBKfWCpFk2GaUfEBYU6wzGnoixkXX3-nxT45V0wQ-SIDHnOlifB1RtxqTkwO/s640/blogger-image--948780712.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I did, I loved my car and I hope that she brings as much joy and as much pleasure to her new owner that she bought to me. She enriched my life immeasurably and I will always look back on happy memories of owning my bug.</font></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-37853648583324831452014-11-13T17:18:00.001-08:002014-11-25T13:09:54.042-08:00LONELY<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">"Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone and solitude expresses the glory of being alone."</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And that seems to sum it up rather neatly really. I hate the loneliness of being alone. It is hateful. An awful feeling. The longing for company. For affection. For chat. For love. For conversation. For ... For ... Something ... Rather than nothing, rather than the nothingness, the silence of loneliness. When you yearn for someone else to share the nothingness with you. Someone to be there. The physical presence of someone. Or even something. The Cat. The Dog.</span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">But then, yes, the glory, the absolute glory, the absolute joy of solitude. The luxury of time spent alone in your own space, with your own company and your own thoughts. I love, I do absolutely love sitting and organising my thoughts. Perhaps with a cup of tea and a biscuit. How heavenly?</span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And I have become very adept at hiding my lonely. I can appear happy and cheerful and independent and the least lonely person on the planet. And I'm not lonely. I revel in the glory of solitude and appreciate that I can enjoy that time alone; really enjoy time to think and think and over-think. And to get lost in my thoughts and ideas. But then when I have ordered them and organised them, I want to share them and that is when I feel lonely.</span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I have got Albion, my cat, and she is marvellous. She listens intently and offers affection, but she never seems particularly interested and never offers an opinion. Never either agrees not disagrees.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And I have some of the most tremendous friends that as girl could ever even hope to have. And I know that they would hate to think that I feel so wretched. They will ask what they can do to help. And that is the thing. There isn't anything that they can do. I know that I am loved, and that is a tremendous help. But I still have that empty feeling of being alone.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">They say it is better to be alone than to be with someone and still feel alone. And I am sure that that is absolutely true. I think it was Marilyn Monroe who said, "It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone."</span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">So perhaps that it the thing. The thing that loneliness relates so closely to unhappiness. Perhaps that empty feeling of feeling lonely is actually unhappiness manifesting itself in another form?</span> </span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And loneliness is one hell of an epidemic. Anne Hathaway said; "Loneliness is my least favorite thing about life. The thing that I'm most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me</span>."</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">But you are never alone with books and ideas and tea. I can amuse myself for days ... But then I realise that perhaps it would be nice to share it all. Sometimes I do think that. That it would be nice to share ideas and thoughts and dreams ... To share all of that with someone who would like to share.</span> </span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I mean even Pooh Bear, the intellect and philosopher, Pooh Bear or was it Piglet who exclaimed that; "it is so much friendlier with two." And I am sure that it is.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-12185949442992244182014-10-31T14:38:00.001-07:002014-10-31T14:40:08.864-07:00HAPPY2<div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Well I have just completed the 100 Happy Days Challenge. This is an initiative of the Random Acts of Kindness (#RAK) Foundation. It has been great fun. 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While the speed of life increases, there is less and less time to enjoy the moment that you are in. The ability to appreciate the moment, the environment and yourself in it is the base for the bridge towards long-term happiness of any human being. We need to be reminded to take joy and take pleasure from the small things. And in doing so, we may discover that these things are not so small after all. 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The idea is to every day submit a picture of what made you happy!"</b></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXoFlZcqqD_cgQJQfd0popE7dFb-vk8eyNJrRQQ3MUMHldqpu2otd4rvthT5XiHS4GXBN3unLYU-3LsZth8Z25xeunTY81DXTPegarHHO4V-n9RT6a6qyXoXF2s9c2e825T6TlcMRhBq36/s640/blogger-image-1690503635.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXoFlZcqqD_cgQJQfd0popE7dFb-vk8eyNJrRQQ3MUMHldqpu2otd4rvthT5XiHS4GXBN3unLYU-3LsZth8Z25xeunTY81DXTPegarHHO4V-n9RT6a6qyXoXF2s9c2e825T6TlcMRhBq36/s640/blogger-image-1690503635.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">A snap-shot, of a moment, that captures; that truly captures the 'happy'.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUnz5vTDFWgG9qGw53cdGRsjv-arAEzVB-sbONhcgpQJ4g4y2_fIsm1IxfAtby1NOz8J6b7fMaDLi0sC_2OKnsO-tDpcCIxNuh7EKPMk_DKCt-t4F5m5JJ5bu7qEUXQtOv081zOzGQuyXQ/s640/blogger-image-1511461480.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUnz5vTDFWgG9qGw53cdGRsjv-arAEzVB-sbONhcgpQJ4g4y2_fIsm1IxfAtby1NOz8J6b7fMaDLi0sC_2OKnsO-tDpcCIxNuh7EKPMk_DKCt-t4F5m5JJ5bu7qEUXQtOv081zOzGQuyXQ/s640/blogger-image-1511461480.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span lang="EN">You are reminded that<b> "It is important to remember that the #100happyday challenge is for you - not for anyone else". </b></span><span lang="EN">It is not a happiness competition or a showing off contest. If you try to please / make others jealous via your pictures - you lose without even starting. Same goes for cheating." It is important to remember that happiness is not a competition. </span><b><span lang="EN">Happiness</span></b><span lang="EN"> is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy</span><span lang="EN">.</span></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk-ZMhVbkAfkmGcWT0VOJ_gE6n3ODVgBIwuQ8pe_8Bo91Ixt_C3R0OkYfdPe0n_1Dksw31jjxwwP_j6pp_WcSWs7zME6a1z4wG_ZylHydlx7XDImZs8ifEcl-41eMq72Lmx3ZKi1VaYQjr/s640/blogger-image-803419457.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk-ZMhVbkAfkmGcWT0VOJ_gE6n3ODVgBIwuQ8pe_8Bo91Ixt_C3R0OkYfdPe0n_1Dksw31jjxwwP_j6pp_WcSWs7zME6a1z4wG_ZylHydlx7XDImZs8ifEcl-41eMq72Lmx3ZKi1VaYQjr/s640/blogger-image-803419457.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span lang="EN">This reminds me of the quote by Henry David Thoreau, (the </span><span lang="EN">American author, poet, philosopher, historian, and leading various other things)</span><span lang="EN"> which was on a card sent to me by a dear friend, </span>“Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder...”</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Visit<b><a href="http://www.100happydays.com/foundation" x-apple-data-detectors="true" x-apple-data-detectors-type="link" x-apple-data-detectors-result="0">www.100happydays.com/foundation</a></b>for more information. </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW3VyliQj-bpV2MCoWe0563meK_xf_rkWiYxcUdg2dnd1NvrOs5LExxLhKAKm14LdW4Lq1dhvHqdyKX4PwO3_qTYchmRkqJR_dvGWJ0w-g3rwA7RElc_3tInzJcD61RNM2E7lMsnGyQ7Jg/s640/blogger-image-681986316.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW3VyliQj-bpV2MCoWe0563meK_xf_rkWiYxcUdg2dnd1NvrOs5LExxLhKAKm14LdW4Lq1dhvHqdyKX4PwO3_qTYchmRkqJR_dvGWJ0w-g3rwA7RElc_3tInzJcD61RNM2E7lMsnGyQ7Jg/s640/blogger-image-681986316.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span lang="EN">Apparently<b>, "71% of people tried to complete this challenge, but failed quoting lack of time as the main reason". </b></span><span lang="EN">These people simply did not have time to be happy. How can you not have time to be happy? Surely you are doing something wrong if you can't find the time; make the time, to be happy. </span></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXZQk82NjNSDY24GGqNLDm8rkyLa6Mff-9qHuHBCEt1hUlPZNZ78OOag6HpCCiOVHGRoRUqjnTXplzU_TDSfoI_ao7pxXVaj_8sLo2KhwWl3bfj76iiUN1ZucEbzUE65E-4S_yM49p1uxG/s640/blogger-image--1595434795.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXZQk82NjNSDY24GGqNLDm8rkyLa6Mff-9qHuHBCEt1hUlPZNZ78OOag6HpCCiOVHGRoRUqjnTXplzU_TDSfoI_ao7pxXVaj_8sLo2KhwWl3bfj76iiUN1ZucEbzUE65E-4S_yM49p1uxG/s640/blogger-image--1595434795.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So, you take a photo of something that has made you happy. "It can be anything from a meet-up with a friend to a very tasty cake in the nearby coffee place, from a feeling of being at home after a hard day to a favor you did to a stranger." Your favourite beer; or favourite fabric softner on special offer at the SuperMarket. A cuddle with the cat, or watching your favourite TV Show or a piece of music played on the radio; a photo that captures and represents that moment.</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs_Wck0acBdBwX2P4QNOnqmeCnxU8QUJuRn8BNJByJUgH-1CRbBK7Luitxjs7rmrN-nYiV9LLx49M8R3C7o58PsaVCmk4-upPDb6eQVsagfm0vVK_GBTGvXYK5Lztjmfx3X_-OHbaHFFYv/s640/blogger-image-1625866498.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs_Wck0acBdBwX2P4QNOnqmeCnxU8QUJuRn8BNJByJUgH-1CRbBK7Luitxjs7rmrN-nYiV9LLx49M8R3C7o58PsaVCmk4-upPDb6eQVsagfm0vVK_GBTGvXYK5Lztjmfx3X_-OHbaHFFYv/s640/blogger-image-1625866498.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I have enjoyed it. 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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">This is sometimes referred to as Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT). "<i>Mindfulness training helps us become more aware of our thoughts and feelings so that instead of being overwhelmed by them, we're better able to manage them</i>." Mindfulness is felt to be a valuable tool in restoring people's quality of life: "<i><span lang="EN">Mindfulness therefore is a mind-body approach to well-being that can help you change the way you think about experiences and reduce stress and anxiety."</span></i></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">You know that feeling, when you feel fed-up? You feel sad. You feel a little bit flat and a little bit miserable. You are upset. And you don't know why you are upset. You just are. You are just sad. You are unhappy.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I love horses. I have always loved horses. Everything about horses. Yes, I do, I even love the smell. A lot of girls, almost every girl growing up love ponies, there is just something about ponies. And we don't really grow out of it. Yes, we may discover boys, but eventually we realise; we really do probably prefer ponies.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Tai Chi is a form of martial art and a gentle exercise that combines deep breathing and relaxation techniques with slow, flowing, graceful movements. To be fair, I don't think I have ever done anything gracefully in my life!</span><br />
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<span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Tai Chi can be carried out individually or in groups. Because Tai Chi is largely based on technique, it does not require great strength or flexibility, although practice on a regular basis will aid suppleness and physical strength. It has become an increasingly popular activity for people with multiple sclerosis (MS) and is associated with stress relief and overall health improvement. As a martial art, Tai Chi involves considerable focus on spiritual aspects and on increasing self-concept and concentration. The majority of teaching in the UK only deals with the exercise side of Tai Chi. It is important to remember that Tai Chi is an internal martial art and therefore does not involve combat.</span><br />
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<span lang="EN" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">The physical and psychological effects of Tai Chi have been examined extensively in both older people and those with chronic conditions. Research has been conducted into the impact of Tai Chi had on people with chronic health problems, including multiple sclerosis (MS). Although as with most research, the research was not free from qualitative or quantitative limitations or biases, but the groups concluded that there was evidence that the exercise was of medical benefit. They found that long-term Tai Chi practice had favorable effects on the promotion of </span><a href="http://www.mstrust.org.uk/atoz/balance.jsp"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">balance</span></a><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"> control, flexibility and cardiovascular fitness and reduced the risk of falls in older people. It was also found to reduce </span><a href="http://www.mstrust.org.uk/atoz/pain.jsp"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">pain</span></a><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">, stress and </span><a href="http://www.mstrust.org.uk/atoz/anxiety.jsp"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">anxiety</span></a><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">. Tai Chi has been shown to improve body awareness, balance and coordination and therefore to impact positively on self-confidence. It is a remarkably effective exercise proven to help mental relaxation, while strengthening both the mind and the body. Tai Chi therefore is found to impact positively on general health and general well-being.</span></span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">My friend, Rose is a NAKMAS (National Association of Karate and Martial Arts Schools) Thai Chi / Chi Gung Instructor. Rose herself has Degenerative Disk Disease which is a severe and progressive back condition which impacts upon her mobility. She also experiences Chronic Pain. She understands what it is like. How debilitating. How painful. How tiring. Rose is therefore passionate about developing 'Tai Chi for Mobility' to share what she has learnt, to share the principles of Tai Chi to enrich the lives of others living with debilitating conditions and disabilities. The idea is to bring appropriate gentle exercise within the reach of people who think exercise is not for them and find traditional sports daunting. I had to give it a go.</span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Rose explains that the Aim is to "help people achieve a better quality of life. Tai Chi exercise provides the framework for the body to work at its best, by improving our posture, balance, co-ordination, concentration and reduce stress these things help the body to do its job more easily."</span><br />
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