tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post6884574609351559074..comments2023-06-27T08:23:53.639-07:00Comments on I AM NOT DRUNK: WORRYAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-48257030290140866302014-05-11T01:47:58.982-07:002014-05-11T01:47:58.982-07:00Yes, Worry can work like adrenalin that fires you ...Yes, Worry can work like adrenalin that fires you up, which I am sure can be useful when harnessed for a live performance, it is when you are not able to control and channel it and it leads to a downwards spiral. It isn't real the majority of the time, it just feels like it is. Friends are a great antidote to worry, hence my BLOG last week.<br /><br />Thanks for your thoughts xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-55892013125117911362014-05-11T00:39:57.837-07:002014-05-11T00:39:57.837-07:00Another great blog Hanya.
I think a little bit o...Another great blog Hanya. <br /><br />I think a little bit of worry at the right times or for the right reason can, as you say, be a good thing. I think it's better if I'm playing a gig to have a tiny bit of anxiety ... just at the back of my head ... just so "worry's weird cousin" complacency, doesn't pay a visit. Just a tiny bit of "edge" )which always disappears the moment I play the first note) is good to keep you on your toes.<br /><br />But that all consuming worry, that comes to you in the dark & quite hours is a very slow killer. Things like that, that you cannot even start to solve at 3am can only be combatted in one way ... by talking to someone. <br /><br />Thanks for always a great blog each week ... you keep us guessing what the next topic will be :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12249467430104629069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-7829268256957981072014-05-10T10:03:36.911-07:002014-05-10T10:03:36.911-07:00Thank You xThank You xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-88156117624876496012014-05-10T09:53:27.923-07:002014-05-10T09:53:27.923-07:00Inspiring again Hanya and very inciteful .Inspiring again Hanya and very inciteful .Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12236380847963589281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-72031161335958309382014-05-10T08:34:05.617-07:002014-05-10T08:34:05.617-07:00Thank You very much for your positive comment. It ...Thank You very much for your positive comment. It is good to know that we are not alone. Thank You for coming on the journey with me. Do have a look at some of the other posts, which I hope you might also find useful. xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-28482067663058634302014-05-10T05:53:13.898-07:002014-05-10T05:53:13.898-07:00Top notch! This is perfect and hit the nail on the...Top notch! This is perfect and hit the nail on the head for me. Living wih MS is a struggle enough, but the Anxiety and Panic I have with it is Horrid! Thank you for this blog post. I know im not alone. I struggle some days in fear of the unknown, yet my mind knows i have no control of the unknown. Why do we do this??? Living in fear ( and it IS fear ) is terrible. I have medication for mine, but sometimes that is even not enough. Meditation and nature help me most, but also others living with this and speaking about it helps and gives me hope also. Love to you. Thank You! Bravo!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-66713792051413162382014-05-09T17:22:33.095-07:002014-05-09T17:22:33.095-07:00Hope you've done some revision. If so, don'...Hope you've done some revision. If so, don't worry you know more than you think you do xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-7621778121982116472014-05-09T16:44:53.005-07:002014-05-09T16:44:53.005-07:00Its exam time that is allIts exam time that is allmmacqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02656985767762439375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-56897974104213872402014-05-09T16:22:49.961-07:002014-05-09T16:22:49.961-07:00They shay a problem shared is a problem halved, bu...They shay a problem shared is a problem halved, but I still like talking things through with my inner self, as ultimately I know what I want to hear! The answer would appear to be to LOVE More and WORRY Less xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-66616104591835529772014-05-09T16:19:57.218-07:002014-05-09T16:19:57.218-07:00I like Kenn's word - fret. I have done a lot ...I like Kenn's word - fret. I have done a lot of that over the years and, as you say, for what? In some instances, it helped me prepare for those few things that did materialise but, overall, fretting about what might happen was a waste of my time and energy. Worry is insidious, because if you are well, it can make you ill and if you are ill, it can make you worse. But knowing that doesn't make it at all easy to stop. Talking it through with your inner self isn't always the answer as you can never be quite sure which side it's on. I like rasselas' idea - open up the private box and share it with your friends. They are, after all, the best way of keeping things in perspective. xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16905875835422436245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-86344540316343015172014-05-09T15:19:06.044-07:002014-05-09T15:19:06.044-07:00What a lovely comment. Thank You. Sorry that you ...What a lovely comment. Thank You. Sorry that you have had a rough few weeks, but glad that this BLOG has help just a little bit. Yes, LOVE more. WORRY less xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-45079445749293819912014-05-09T15:16:17.271-07:002014-05-09T15:16:17.271-07:00You've hit the nail on the head again with thi...You've hit the nail on the head again with this one. I have been consumed with it for weeks now, like a bad cold that lingers on. So easy to say 'lighten up, be happy,' but if you can't do that, it just increases the feelings of anxiety. What does help is communicating, opening up the private box of worry and letting others see it. It really helps dissipate I find. So this blog is a huge contribution - thank you!rasselashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06127728901917134145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-70589181095402167192014-05-09T14:59:23.864-07:002014-05-09T14:59:23.864-07:00Thanks Kenn, yes, I need to talking things through...Thanks Kenn, yes, I need to talking things through with my inner self then move on rather than repeating the same conversation over and over again. I spend time worrying about things that never happen!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-8825524983907573072014-05-09T14:44:40.345-07:002014-05-09T14:44:40.345-07:00I used to worry or, as I prefer, fret; then I rati...I used to worry or, as I prefer, fret; then I rationalized that, just as you say, it wasn't going to change anything unless I did something about it. I appreciate that you can't do anything about your MS - but that in itself is an answer. If you can't influence an outcome there is no point in worrying.<br />I found prayer helped, often you're just talking things through with your inner self - but what works, works. XAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07463714284949897763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-73594761674927541112014-05-09T12:41:05.588-07:002014-05-09T12:41:05.588-07:00... and love a little more! x... and love a little more! xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12897651512349501048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409520830606075621.post-10762545774209285782014-05-09T12:37:07.486-07:002014-05-09T12:37:07.486-07:00Very true, I need to worry a lot less!Very true, I need to worry a lot less!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04976705732236753230noreply@blogger.com